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writes:My girlfriend had sex one time before she met me for literally only 2 minutes and told the man to stop. She knew what she was doing was wrong theres a long back story to this. But I'm wondering will she still be tight when we do it? Tight as a virgin? Reply to this Question
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reader, LoveexD +, writes (13 December 2010):
If she is, Just go slow.
Dont rush things.
Maybe she didnt want it the first time.
After her first 2or 3 times she wont be.(:
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 December 2010):
No, once a woman has sex even once it's like throwing a pencil down a hallway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYou all have helped me out tremendously I will treat her with respect I was raised to treat women with respect I have a sister at home and wouldn't want nobody treating my sister wrongfully. We both are in love and know that one day we will both be tieing the knot. Thank you guys!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Yeah, it will be special for both of you, because I can guarantee you, those 2 minutes weren't special for her.
She won't be "looser" for you whatsoever.
Treat her right and have fun :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): why is it so important that she is a virgin? I think you are beibng selfish and thinking only of your own sexaul gratification. She doesn't have to be as tight as a virgin for you and her...yes her enjoymeny matters too... to have a good time. Please stop being one of those guys who judges girls on the size of her vagina..focus instead on the other things she can bring to the table
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Ahh, I figured. Thanks for clearing that up!
One thing most guys don't realize about us girls is that a lot of the time, our first time is not a pleasant memory. There's pain, tons of awkwardness, and more pain. I'm wondering if that's not part of her stopping this one guy.
When you and she have your first time, the physical pain and tearing will not be a factor, so I'm thinking that when you two get together, it will be absolutely life altering for the both of you.
You were her first kiss, and you'll be her first true sex that has love involved, and you'll be the first that gives her true sexual pleasure. You two will have a lifetime to get it right. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank You YouWish and yes I am a virgin I mean we both have no experience at all so I Think it will stil be special to both of us we truley love each other and there is a long back story I had her and led her on and now we are finally together we were talking before the incident happend I could have avoided all of this, but I ma just happy that I have her now and it really isn't a big deal to me there are so many things to try that she hasn't tried that was her only sexualy encounter ever. To add i was her first kiss ever.
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 December 2010):
Yes you're lucky now get some lube and condoms and get your pants off and get on with it ! Be gentle and take as much time as necessary getting inside her. Try just one finger first, then two : once it's clear she's enjoying that you can upgrade to tip of penis then after a bit of gentle to-ing and fro-ing the whole shaft can go in.......bliss !
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 December 2010):
Heh. I was sitting here getting irritated at you for not feeling lucky that you had her for HER sake when it hit me. Are you a virgin?? Were you raised religiously where you were told to be a virgin until your wedding night and that God had a virgin for you to marry??
Because if you're not a virgin, that's a horrible double standard to have to expect a virgin/near virgin while you've played the field.
If you ARE a virgin, don't worry. When she's with you, she will only think of you. She won't compare you to someone else, and her vagina will be as airtight as your dreams have hoped. And as an added bonus, you won't tear her and cause her a lot of pain.
Show her a lot of love. Use XY jelly liberally, and be safe! You are lucky to have her in your life. Don't think about her sexual history in any capacity because you are her entire world now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know she is not a virgin my friends once there is penetration you are no longer a virgin. and I do not care about the sex I love her for who she is. I was just a lttle curious thank you for the input.
-Soon567- Oh I know it was for only two minutes hundred percent positive I told you that there was a backstory that I did not give details about.
I mean she is the closest thing to a virgin should I still feel lucky?
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reader, smiliek +, writes (13 December 2010):
 *sigh* indeed... I've had a few sexual partners, and my hubby still says im the tightest he's been with after a few years now.. Vagina's are designed to stretch, having sex, even kids dont make you 'loose' Every woman is different
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reader, YouWish +, writes (13 December 2010):
I don't think you have anything to worry about, but your question disturbs me a bit. Is this all you care about when it comes to her?? What happens if you two become sexually active and she is no longer "tight as a virgin"?
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reader, soon567 +, writes (13 December 2010):
No dude and I really find it hard to believe she stop him after 2 mins. She will never be a vigin again.
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reader, Jmtmj +, writes (13 December 2010):
*sigh*
Yes, she will be.
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