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writes:dear readers, im madly in love with this guy for the past 10 years. we used to speak to each other as kids when i was as young as 9 yrs old, but we stopped now as we grew up. The thing is i have been praying continuously for the past so many years. In fact we have never spoken to each other mainly because he is too shy and i though i tried talking to him, he refused to say more than a sum total of 10 words. i have been ok, on the dating scene. i have had guys date me and dump me too, almost had 4 relationships but all throughout, i realized im still in love with this one guy. im not able to get over him after all these years. do you think prayers will work ? do you think he would have showed at least some sign of interest, if he liked me ?? im very confused and unhappy. pls help !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): keep trying and keep talking to him hunny. Yes he's shy but once he gets used to talkin to u, he should become more willing to talk. Who am i to say that prayer doesnt work. If u feel it helps then keep praying but youv got to give it a helping hand. U need to be honest, do u have an aqaintance in common? Maybe they can re-introduce u properly? Anyway good luck hunny i hope u get ur man! X
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 You need to make a move. The myth where men do everything is not true it takes two to tango so make a move.
I wish you the best.
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reader, Kessi  +, writes (1 November 2010):
Prayers only wont help in this case. You've got to approach him and ask him out. Thats the only way.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 No praying isnt going to help you here am afraid, you need to be honest with him and ask him out on a date this is the only way you will know if he is interested in you or not, so go for it ask him out and see how things go just take it from there.
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reader, Cccc  +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Well sometimes it must come from your side.I mean shy guys never even Bother to show signs cause they think it will never happen.Remember it takes effort to make a spark soo maybe it should come from your side.Flirt with him and talk to him about this but just NEVER say "I love you" in atleast first 2 months.
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