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Will my crush ever talk to me?

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Question - (9 July 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 July 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I thought my crush liked me so I flirted and gave him my number. He texted me a couple weeks later. He is shy so I didn't think much of it when he texted me two weeks after I gave him my number. He started to stare at me a lot, smile, blush, and look away when I saw him looking at me. Because of this I decided to ask him out. He said maybe so I let him decide for a while. I asked him again and he said no. I was really upset. He kept staring, blushing, smiling, and looking away when I saw him looking at me. Toward the end of the school year I asked him if he wanted to hang out with friends or just the two of us. He said he wasn't sure so I gave him until the last day of school(one week after I asked him). He said maybe again and smiled awkwardly, blushed, and kept looking at the ground and into my eyes. I was upset again. I started to text him a lot. He texted back one day saying leave me alone. I did for around two months. I texted him saying sorry for annoying you, will you forgive me? He never responded(it's been two or more months). I still really like him and I cry a lot wanting him to just talk to me. Will my crush ever talk to me? Will he like me again(if he did)? Will he even want to hang out with me? How will I get him back?

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A male reader, no nonsense Aidan United Kingdom +, writes (10 July 2012):

It sounds like you’ve done all that you can to offer your friendship to him. Unfortunately, why he’s not interested isn’t clear, but the more you try and chase after him whilst he doesn’t want to be around you, regardless of the reasons behind that choice, the more you’ll drive him further away. You should now leave it be and concentrate on spending time with other friends and making new ones. In time you’ll move on.

I wish you all the very best.

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A female reader, Aunty Susie Australia +, writes (10 July 2012):

Aunty Susie agony auntI'm thinking that maybe you need to just let this one go. You gave him lots of opportunities; he'll just have to be in your past, because I can't see him in your future. As time moves on, you'll get over it. xx

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