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writes:i split up with my ex a few weeks ago after a year because i fancied a guy at work. me and this guy started sleeping with each other. now he has gone away for a month and said that when he returns we will just be mates. i relised i shouldnt have done this to my ex. he has no idea what has happened. we are still talking but he says he doesnt think it could work again. how can i make him think differently?? or shall i just leave it???
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2008): i see this post is old, but i'll reply anyway...my gf (now ex) and i split up 4 months ago but she's been giving me false hope this entire time and making me believe that things will work out...today she told me she's been dating someone else (weird b/c she called me her better half a few days ago). i don't think i've ever hurt so badly. however, would i take her back if things didn't work out...maybe is the answer i can give. my point is, do it for the right reasons. do it b/c you love the guy and really do want to b ewith him, not because you're feeling lonely. you've screwed him over once, be human and don't put him through that again if you don't love him
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2007): My GF did the same thing to me. I would Just tell him how you feel but, I dont know if that would even change his mind. He may be afraid that you will break up with him later down the road for the same reason.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (5 July 2007):
 I say, you took your chances. Now face it.
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reader, flower girl +, writes (5 July 2007):
 Do you really still like him or are you trying to go back because you don't want to be on your own?
If you really do want to be with him for the right reasons then whats the harm in trying to win him back, but i do think you will need to give him time as he is probably still a bit wounded from the breakup, you are still talking so thats a good thing, just take things slow and keep letting him know how you feel, but try not to get out of him how he feels and if he wants to try again he will.
Take care.xx.
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