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*aramel 26
writes:I have never had an orgasm before. When I think I am going to get one I have to go to the bathroom. They say that is what it feels like, but I really have to pee. Is their something wrong with me? Is their something that I can do in order to experience an orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Tip: always pee before sex, because it will take the urge away while having sex, also if he is hitting your G spot that can make you think you are going to pee but if you already went before sex then you know your blatter is empty so in fact you wont, don't worry and good luck hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): I doubt you'll pee, but go to the toilet beforehand just to make sure.
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reader, scythe  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Try it again in the shower so then even if you do end up peeing its not such a big deal.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Yes, it is well known that most women feel that urge as you say, but it is usually a false need. It is certainly not unusual. Your question about experiencing an orgasm is a major subject, but first of all relax and enjoy.
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reader, Tremor +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Don't fret about the 'needing to pee' feeling - that is normal.
When a woman experiences orgasm, she emits a clear fluid (not urine) from the urethra (The bit you pee from). This is why you feel like you need to go.
The best way is just to relax and not worry about it.
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (4 June 2008):
 Okay... try this. Pee and then masturbate until you have an orgasm. That way you will know how an orgasm feels like and you'll be sure you do not need to pee.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2008): Masturbate and find out. Some women do experience discharge when they have an orgasm; it's not abnormal, and by that I mean there's nothing wrong with it; but it's abnormal only in that the majority do not urinate when they have an orgasm.
Of course you could just be confused. Some women who have not had an orgasm confuse the feeling with the need to urinate; so it might just be that.
my recommendation is to just experiment with your body and find out. on the upside, some guys actually find women who "squirt" during orgasm to be a turn on, so it might be a blessing anyway. Haha, i wish you all the best, have fun!
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reader, princessjasmine +, writes (4 June 2008):
dude orgasms are not as hard as u think...and u wont pee...its just a feeling u get...like a state of ecstacy...u prob have gotten it (that feeliing of wanting to pee..lol prob was it) if ur body shook and ur clit got really sensitive afterward..u orgasmed...and it feels damn good!
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