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writes:hi i am a 45 year old female in a relationship with a man i have loved almost all my life we never got together untill last year both have 2 previous marragies behind us i just got divorced early last year , his came final recently it seams like a dream come true but his ex wife wont give up on him , even after he has lived with me over a year now i am worried , he still has not moved everything of his from her house , i feel like they still have something going on but cant prove it , i dont want to keep making a fuss over it and drive him away with mistrust but at the same time i cant get it out of my head , stupid little things that happen and i am surposed to just except it
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Yes to all Dirtball said. Why don't you ask him why he doesn't get all his stuff and just break up with the other woman? Better be sure and better put this on the table.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 The not fully moving out thing is a bit odd. That would probably trouble me too. Have you talked about why he hasn't moved out?
You say "stupid little things that happen." Could you explain what you mean?
Ultimately, he wouldn't have divorced her if he still wanted to be with her, because it sounds like she wasn't the one who wanted the relationship to end.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2011): Can you just say to him, why not get all your stuff back now and then it's done with. It is like symbolically closing a door. You don't want to appear insecure, but if you calmy say it is unsettling you - he should understand. I think anyone would. Maybe you are blowing this up a little to much in your mind though, making it into an issue, there is that possiblity.
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