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writes:My best mate 'K' is 17 -- hes had quite a lot of girlfriends (longest lasting 2 months), had sex with 3 and been sexual since probably around 13 (when he lost his virginity). I'm the kind of guy that wants a longterm relationship and i think K does too, but he goes for the wrong girls and imho he goes too far too quickly.anyway his most recent ex 'M' is a manipulative bitch. i don't know her personally but she sent nasty messages to mine and K's other best mate 'KK' saying she shouldnt be his best mate.K and M knew each other for about 3 or 4 wks before going out and only lasted about 7 to 9 wks but had already done sexual stuff probably to 3rd base. she dumped him because she had familly stuff to deal with which sounded legit to everyone at the time and she said they'd get back together in 2 wks which sounded a bit less legit to me but i knew K liked her so i didnt say anything.2 wks passed and they were still talking like all the time and he stopped talking to me and KK other than at our youth club 3 days a week. she kept saying 2 more weeks and it never came to them getting back together but he kept waiting because she kept promising things whilst flirting with his cousin who set them up in the first place.KK and i didn't like the way she was treating him but he was so 'in love' that he couldnt see the manipulation. about 2.5 to 3 months has passed since their breakup and now shes dating his cousin!!!! but K is fully blaming his cousin and not M too. he is going to get so hurt and we know hes got to learn from his mistakes but we just dont get why hes hanging on to her when he knows shes been lying to him, manipulating him and dating his cousin.could him getting sexual with his girlfriends so fast make him feel so attached to them and think its a sign of proper love? if not why does he feel like he 'loves' them so quickly when they dont last more than 2 months? and why wont he move on from M when he knows shes a manipulative, lying bitch who is messing with him, stringing him along AND dating his cousin? he says he wants to move on now but he saw her this weekend and i think that hes making it easier for her to keep stringing him along without him realising it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012): op here.
kallie (they changed it to kk) and i arent going to meddle we just dont understand why he can see it but cant seem to find the balls to do something about it. miranda (m) still calls him 1-6 times a day so they can be "bestfriends" which sounds like she just wants him there as a second option for when she and his cousin breakup.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (14 May 2012):
 I'd like to give you some very hard earned advice, never stick your nose into a friend's love life, just don't go there...ever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2012): its never the other persons fault. its his fault. ask him why. he is shallow,hurt or what...
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