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Why is this guy acting immaturely at work to ruin my friendship with a another co-worker?

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Question - (19 June 2016) 5 Answers - (Newest, 30 June 2016)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I work for a company and enjoy the job I do, and I've made friends which is good. The problem is there's this lad who is like a reaptive parrot and copies everything I say. There's this female who says hi to me and asks me how I am, so when ive answered her question and she's said how she is and everything. I said good stuff and then he said it after that?

Is he taking the mick or doing it on purpose?

The female is a friend of mine and I became her friend when she joined the company as I didn't want her feeling left out and know what it's like to be on the side lines.

She doesnt like him very much but instead likes me as I'm shy and not as loud.

Advice needed

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (30 June 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntFrom reading all your other posts and then looking back at this one it is clear that this girl does not like you in a romantic way. The other guy seems to annoy you because you think off her as more than a friend, I guess the best thing that you can do hear is ignore them both. If he is upsetting you then by ignoring him you choose not to let him treat you like this any longer. You have had some great advice on all your posts, you should listen to it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2016):

I thought that too aunt honesty, but in a private conversation I had with her she isn't a fan of him.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (21 June 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntYou could just ignore him, you say she likes you therefore it is possible that he is jealous therefore he is being a pain in the butt. Ignoring him means that you are not fueling him and he doesn't know that he is annoying you.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2016):

I will do, thanks for the advice.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (19 June 2016):

Honeypie agony auntIgnore him or call him out on being an ass.

Like:" You know I wasn't talking to you or about you, so how about you butt out, buddy?"

Sooner or later he will realize he isn't being as funny as he thinks. Hopefully.

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