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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to forever.He then called me and said can he take all he said to me back because he loves me and wants to work things out with me.. (Because I said something that really touched his heart) but I told him we should take some time out..no contact, so he can really think about what he wants because I think he wants to do that to make me happy. He agreed to the break:(Now I've him missed so much. He says there's no one else and he says he will miss me..:(It's been 3 days since the break.. Will he ever come back to me? I can't stop crying:( I love him so much.. He's the sweetest guy I know..:(Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I ring him???Thanks..x
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (4 March 2011):
What you told him is so nice...dont worry I bet he misses you as much as u miss him... Good luck and be positive!! Im sure you two will be back together soon
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reader, Spendy +, writes (4 March 2011):
Spendy is verified as being by the original poster of the question He said it touched his heart..when I told him how much I loved him and didn't care about what he can give me cos I just wanna be in his arms cos that's the only place I feel safe..and we don't have to think about forever wheter we make it or not I just wanna be with him.:(
I miss him so much my heart is aching:( (am crying as I type this)
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reader, dannn +, writes (4 March 2011):
Kind of depressing they put related questions as "broke up"
But truth is I'd say you've got a shot at it, or at least don't give up..
Being optimistic will help calm your nerves and if it all goes down the drain then you'll really be justified in being upset.
As a dude I've only ever had gf's do this sort of thing to me, and I've heard that the advice that "sebaslookingforward" gave is the staple you'll find most places so why not give it a go. Or do what you believe is the proper thing to do.
Hopefully it works!!! and works out!!!
Good luck
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reader, sebaslookingforward +, writes (4 March 2011):
Some breaks are legit, other "breaks" are actually breakups.If he did say he still wants you and that he loves you, he definitely needs a legit break so do not worry. During the weekend, text him/email him asking "how do you feel? how much time are you going to take?". If he does answer you, he definitely missed you as much as you miss him and you can meet somewhere to make him feel comfortable again.If he says he needs more time, or he is not clear about when the break is going to end, that is a bit more difficult, as he might not be sure if he still wants to be in the relationship.What you said to him that "touched his heart" does play a role. May we know what you told him? That way we would be able to help you out better.
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