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When should I email the manager and what should I say?

Q.   So I recently got this job as a carer, caring for a client with spinal cord injury (shes in a wheelchair). It is different from anything else ive done before, now this client can be a bit rude with her loud voice telling how to fold her clothes...

A.   17 June 2016: So, spoke to the manager and she didn't believe me, said all the staff members loves the client so it can't be true how i said shes treated me. I have left the job. I feel very upset that she'd jump to clients defense. On my last shift there, i told ... (read in full...)

My ex said he'd fall in love with me again but then cut all contact

Q.   Why would he do that? I'm so hurt:(? I got back with my ex after a year split. He said he didn't want a relationship. A year later I was still sad and missed him everyday. Here got in contact again and got back together. He told me things...

A.   28 March 2012: He replied hours later saying he's been busy with family problems & haven't thought about us. He said he enjoyed our time together but he doesn't think things can be like before. He thought things would return but it didn't go as planned.:( ... (read in full...)

I feel like the spark is gone. Will it ever come back?

Q.   Why am I not as happy as I should be? I love him so much:(? My ex and I got back together after a year split. I love him so much and hated it without him. He broke up with me cause he didn't want a relationship at that time. We...

A.   26 March 2012: Is been 3DAYS now I've not heard from him:( should I ring him or text him anything! Seriously I'm going out my mind:(!!... (read in full...)

Cheating boyfriend's passport expired 3 years ago! Should I call immigration on him?

Q.   What kind of a person does this? this guy is seriously sick!!? I loved my ex bf so much.. I thought we were in love.. He was so sweet.. Told me he loved me everyday.. He never gave my a reason to doubt him. Everything was great. We had g...

A.   11 February 2012: Sorry.. I meant his student visa expired in 2008.. He told me he's going to his Country permanently in May. Should I just let karma deal with him?xx... (read in full...)

He dumped me, but now he wants to be friends

Q.   What is going on here? am I being stupid? My ex boyfriend dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship and that he fell out of love with me. He was devastated when we split, we got back into contact again and he's saying he wants to be f...

A.   29 May 2011: Thank you all very much.xx... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend doing this? Should I call him?

Q.   My boyfriend broke up with me, and he said he's not the guy for me, he doesn't deserve me, I could find someone better, and he wants to be alone without a girlfriend. But he said he still wants me and loves me but he doesn't know if we'll make it to ...

A.   4 March 2011: He said it touched his heart..when I told him how much I loved him and didn't care about what he can give me cos I just wanna be in his arms cos that's the only place I feel safe..and we don't have to think about forever wheter we make it or not I ... (read in full...)

While on a break, my BF met his ex, she straddled him and exposed her breasts! Now he's unsure about us together!

Q.   my boyfriend asked for a break to clear his head.. on the break he told me he went to see a girl he's slept with before and she straddled him and took off her top showing my bf her breasts and told him how much she wanted him. But my bf said he ...

A.   3 March 2011: thanks..xx... (read in full...)

My boyfriend was supposed to surprise me on Valentine's Day but he never showed!

Q.   Why is my boyfriend doing this? should I break up with him? before my birthday, my boyfriend and i talked about going away for my birthday.(we talked about it for weeks, we both seemed really excited). but a week before my birthday we got into an ...

A.   3 March 2011: thanks..xx... (read in full...)

How do I know if I rushed into sex with boyfriend or not?

Q.   i had sex with my boyfriend.. kinda went ready but.. when we kiss and touch he turns m,e on too much.. he asked me 5times if i were sure.. i said yes.. it was great it felt right.. but i dont know maybe i rushed it..cos he keeps saying i...

A.   15 October 2010: yes it felt soo right..and i loved every minute of it..no am i feel so close to me nothing changed if anything..hes gone..alot more caring and sweeter:)... (read in full...)

Why did he do that?? Am sooo upset :(

Q.   am working temporary for christmas sales.. and this guy there.. i liked him when i saw him.. i thought it was mutual cos everytime i look up hes looking at me..but i ignored him.. so he came up to me and started talking to me.. we work toge...

A.   29 December 2009: i was going to.. i was playing on writing my number on a paper & saying some thing flirty.. & slip it in his pocket.so he scould call me..but then i heard him asking that girl for her number:(... (read in full...)

I am too afraid to enjoy this romance because of past hurt! Help!

Q.   ive met a guy. hes really into me.. hes soo sweet and funny. hes good looking.. goes uni really ambitious and seems really friendly and i think i like him too cos everytime i think about him i just smile.. he makes me really happy by just ...

A.   15 November 2009: thank you...x... (read in full...)

I took my ex back, he lied has another girl

Q.   hi there i need advice I have a problem with my bf, we have been together for 2yrs now, we having our ups and downs, last year it happens dat we break up but he asked me to come back to him and tell me that he does'nt have gf. i found out that h...

A.   23 January 2009: awww..honey ive been der the same situation... HUGS you will be find.. just say it and mean it... you can do it.. LEEAVE that a..hole and be single... i was in the same situation.. when i found out abt his otha girl when we got bk together it killed ... (read in full...)

He accuses me of cheating, now I haven't heard from him in 2 weeks

Q.   We’ve been together for 3months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me everyday..last time i saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him...saying i am not giving him sex ...

A.   18 January 2009:  its been 3 WEEKS now actually.. since i last saw him(spoke to him)... (read in full...)

Why is my boyfriend doing this???

Q.   We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...

A.   15 January 2009: It's gunna be 3 weeks tomorrow that I havent heard from him.. what should I do now, please help me. I am soo depressed.. I can't even sleep.. I feel sooo empty and lonely..xx... (read in full...)

He never makes the first move.. should I be worried?

Q.   He never makes the first move to kiss me or anything.. is like he wants me to come to him.. i always go up to him and then starts kissing him.. i always initiate things..when i ask him to kiss me e just gives me a peck on the lips and i say is that ...

A.   13 January 2009:  thanks... we were together for 2months before any physical contact..which i made the move to kiss him..!!... (read in full...)

He hasn't called in 2 weeks

Q.   We’ve been together for 3 months.. after 2 months he changed and started been all weird and not calling me much.. he use to call me every day..last time I saw him he got really angry and accused me of cheating on him... saying I am not giving him ...

A.   12 January 2009: thak you..xx... (read in full...)

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