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*ULIE MIKE
writes:hey guys this guy and I are having sex.Recently he just startd behaving very weird.he has been accusing me of having sex with multiple menwhile this is something i have never even thought of doing he is the only man am having sex with.yesterday he called me when i was at friends house and he told me hurtfull stuff like he knows am sleeping with someone and am always doing iti dont understand why but he is just being vulgar and using dirty words on me?those things a not true and also he is just so commanding and even he gives me this dirty look i feel so hurt what do i do.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (24 December 2012):
 Then why are you sleeping with him? He treats you like dirt, stand up for yourself.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 December 2012):
 Even though he has no claim on you and is just a FWB, men in general tend to be possessive.
He's being vulgar and cruel and I would recommend you stop having sex with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2012): "dont understand why but he is just being vulgar and using dirty words on me?"
Why do you even need an explanation? Why isn't the mere fact that he's being vulgar and using dirty words enough for you to want to immediately disassociate with him?
"those things a not true and also he is just so commanding and even he gives me this dirty look i feel so hurt what do i do."
Stop sleeping with a guy who treats you with such contempt and disrespect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2012): If you are only sleeping with him, just stop. He doesn't sound good to me. Why would you accept that kind of behaviour? He is insecure and trust me you don't want to go on, it will probably just get worse. I have been in a relationship with a guy like that, there were laways these kinsd of accusations, he was callng me a whore etc.
It could be that this guy is sleeping with other girls himself and that's why is acting like this, cause he is afraid you are doing the same.. Many times I've heard this has been the case.. Just be careful, Im saying this from experience. You should not accept him saying hurtfull stuff about you. You are so much better! Insecure guys do things like this, i know this, little by little they try to take total control over you by saying hurtfull stuff and so on. Walk away and find a better guy.
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reader, babyzbird  +, writes (23 December 2012):
 Hi,
I'm sorry he is treating you so terrible and I am shocked that he is not even your boyfriend! My only advice is to tell him to leave you alone and to have nothing more to do with this boy. Even if you were having sex with multiple men it is none of his business as he is not even in a relationship with you!
Good Luck!
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