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writes: At a new year party I met a great guy. We were both drunk and ended up spending the whole night kissing and talking, we had so much in common and I really fell for him. We text a bit after that and last week I went to a party at his house. He ignored me the whole time and I ended up dancing and kissing another guy. I'm not sure if he saw or not but I hope not. I didn't think I liked him that much until this party. I got butterflies that were physically hurting me. I couldn't understand why he didn't even say Hi so I text him two days later saying sorry for not saying hello but that I was shy for some reason. He still hasn't text back, which is unlike him and I'm devastated. Why is he giving me the cold shoulder?
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reader, Annieapple  +, writes (10 February 2009):
If he saw you kissing another guy it might be because of that. To be honest, if he’s rude enough to invite you to his house and then ignore you then I think you can do a lot better. He might use the fact that you kissed this guy as an excuse but if he was really into you he would have made sure he spoke to you at the party.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (10 February 2009):
Maybe he has a girlfriend, maybe he was too drunk the first time and didn't recognise you.
As you say you only met him once and spent most of that time snogging, you hardly know him very well and he could just be an arse hole.
If he's being stupid and messing you about then he's not worth your time. You deserve better than that.
You've already moved on enough to snog someone else so why worry about it?
Good Luck!! xx
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