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I've gone off women and I'm only having sexual thoughts about men!

Q.   I've gone off women. I'm not sure whether I've just 'come into my sexuality' or not but recently, I've gone completely off women and on to men. Sexual thoughts about men started for me a long time ago but only in the background and I pursued va...

A.   30 October 2009: ask yourself these questions seriously do you love women ? are you attracted to women? do you like to have sex with women? if you answer yes to these questions then your straight. i have had siilar thoughts mabe it might be a midlife crisis or ... (read in full...)

How do I get over being shy to tell her I like her?

Q.   Im in love with this girl named alexius. she is so hot, she would fry an egg if you put it on her. I dont think she knows I like her. I dont know how to get her to like me. If you saw my picture you would think I wouldnt have this problem. People ...

A.   9 November 2007: if she likes u she will show it u cant make her like you just smile say hello and see where that leads to... (read in full...)

Can my 16 year old son move out of our home without parental consent?

Q.   I need help so bad. I live in Canada. My 16 year old son got a job this summer and has become friends with a few questionable people, from this fast food place thay all work at. One of them is a 22 year old who has weekend parties (booze for ...

A.   9 November 2007: thank you for repying to my answer i am from the uk and parents are responsible for their children until they are 16, in the uk i don't know how old you have to be in canada. you have to keep on trying to help, with advice and support but the more ... (read in full...)

Can my 16 year old son move out of our home without parental consent?

Q.   I need help so bad. I live in Canada. My 16 year old son got a job this summer and has become friends with a few questionable people, from this fast food place thay all work at. One of them is a 22 year old who has weekend parties (booze for ...

A.   19 October 2007: Talk to him about this as even though he may be old enough legally hes not yet mature enough to make big changes in his life its a big step leaving home i,ve moved back twice because i found it hard paying rent and all other things plus if he,s... (read in full...)

Can my 16 year old son move out of our home without parental consent?

Q.   I need help so bad. I live in Canada. My 16 year old son got a job this summer and has become friends with a few questionable people, from this fast food place thay all work at. One of them is a 22 year old who has weekend parties (booze for ...

A.   19 October 2007: Talk to him about this as even though he may be old enough legally hes not yet mature enough to make big changes in his life its a big step leaving home i,ve moved back twice because i found it hard paying rent and all other things plus if he,s... (read in full...)

I masturbate 3-4 times per week. Am I the only guy who does this?

Q.   dear cupid i am 15-16 i masterbate atleast 3-4 tymes a week or evn more, i would like to know how to stop as i cant be telling anyone i masterbate, as they will be taking the piss and also another thing why do people say its disgusting and am...

A.   5 October 2007: it is not disgusting at all, all men do it whatever their age, its the most normal thing for a man to do and obviously you dont tell anyone things like that, u keep to yourself its normal to do it everyday... (read in full...)

Gay porn turns me on! Am I gay or is this a phase?

Q.   Am i gay!? Im a normal teenager going through puberty and have been watching porn and masterbating since i was 14. But recently i have found favour in anal porn. This has led me on to have a look at gay porn, but it turns me on. I am now ...

A.   5 October 2007: looking at gay porn does'nt mean your gay u cant be straight then look at gay porn then be gay this sounds like just a phase that may fade in a year or 2 and i would'nt say your bisexual either fantacies are just fantasies as long as u don't act out ... (read in full...)

My mums nagging is driving me mad!

Q.   Right...i've reached my limit! My mother is doing my head-in so much, i swear i can't take any more of it or i'll explode!!! She nags at me about everything; getting towels wet, splashing toothpaste around the sink, getting make-up on her b...

A.   29 September 2007: all parents nag its only because they care but your mum needs to realise that people need there space tell her that your not happy with the constant nagging and its and its stressing u out everyone makes mistakes its all part of growing up ... (read in full...)

I still can't stop the internet gay porn thing...why am i so weird and what should i do?

Q.   Alright I am fucked up, From what I can remember I always seemed to be attracted to girls, but I never had much luck with them growing up. I seemed to always end up in the friend zone or for being to nice in jr high and high school, i figured it ...

A.   29 September 2007: Ask yourself these questions do u love men do u want sex with men do u want a relationship with men do you feel gay do you fancy men if you answer yes to any of these questions then your probebly gay... (read in full...)

Gay porn turns me on! Am I gay or is this a phase?

Q.   Am i gay!? Im a normal teenager going through puberty and have been watching porn and masterbating since i was 14. But recently i have found favour in anal porn. This has led me on to have a look at gay porn, but it turns me on. I am now ...

A.   19 September 2007: looking at gay porn and thinking about having sex with men does not atomaticly make u gay it sounds as if your just having a fantacy these toughts may pass in afew months... (read in full...)

Am I gay or a bisexual? If so - calling all potentials!

Q.   I am 21 yrs old and for a long while now I have liked females a whole lot longer than males. I've slept with my best friend once and didn't like it and I hate to cuddle with guys and don't mind cuddling with females. I have kissed two girls (2...

A.   17 September 2007: you say you've kissed girls and enjoyed it more than guys ots obvious that yur straight mabe your just courious wondering what it would be like to be with a guy most men do not lke to admit it but we all have had feelings like this at some point... (read in full...)

Friend or enemy

Q.   Well I have a friend who is the same age as me (20) and we fell out because she couldn't stay round mine. She called me a bad mum and that she was embarresed to hang around with me because im slightly bigger than her.. Recently we made up and ever ...

A.   16 September 2007: She sounds like she's chidish and shallow you don't break a friendship because of size i wouldnt waste my time on her-by the way is she a mum if she isn't she cannot judje you on being a bad parent... (read in full...)

Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis?

Q.   Does penis size reallly matter to girls? I have heard that medium to smaller is better, but then how poeple make fun of the small ones? Why do some girls judge on the size of the penis? its not like men have control over what size penis we get. Its ...

A.   16 September 2007: I suppose it matters if it's large then it may be painful.... (read in full...)

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