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19agegap
writes:My ex R and I were together for almost a year, before he moved away to another country and wasn't committed. We are both around 30. We tried, but I pushed him away when I kept asking for commitment (yes i know 1 year is not long enough for commitment, but he was moving away to another country and I couldn't move without any sort of commitment). That gave him pressure and he broke up with me over email. I love him a lot (still), but I let him go though it's the most painful thing I could do. And I did not contact him at all after the email. It's been 2 months and some other stuff happened that made me depressed. So I went on a vacation with 2 guys and 1 girl to loosen up and posted up the pictures on facebook. Normal vacation pix, and some of us playing around while drunk, but still normal photos no kissing or anything indecent. After which, he removed me as a friend on facebook. I sent him a msg (for the first time in 2 months) asking him why and he did not reply. Can anyone share what you think he's thinking?
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reader, Ask oldersister + ♥, writes (21 July 2008):
 I'm not sure what you are wanting from this guy. He wouldn't give you a commitment in the first place, a year is more than enough time!, and moved to another country. Now he's on the other side of the world and you are playing games on facebook? My guess is he's thinking he doesn't want all the silly drama. This guy broke up with you over email (not real mature) and you are now surprised he deleted you (yawn)? Focus your energy on guys that are in your area and willing to have a normal relationship where you actually discuss problems and work through them.
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reader, LazyGuy  + ♥, writes (21 July 2008):
 That ain't the point, it is what HE believes happened.
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reader, 19agegap +, writes (21 July 2008):
19agegap is verified as being by the original poster of the questionerr....nothing happened, really.
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reader, LazyGuy + ♥, writes (21 July 2008):
You went on a vacation, 2 girls, 2 boys. You posted pictures of this on facebook, a site that he also visits. After these pictures were posted and presumably seen by him, he removes you as a friend.
Do you really not know what he is thinking?
He is thinking that you went on holiday with another guy as a couple. Maybe nothing happened but come on, who is going to believe that?
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