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Why did he masturbate right after sex?

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Question - (10 August 2016) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2016)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *are1991 writes:

Hi just a quick question please..

Me and my boyfriend had sex the other day after i went to the toilet i went back in to the bedroom and my partner was masturbating baring in kind we had just had sex.

What ut is all about? Any advice is greatly appreciated TIA X

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (11 August 2016):

N91 agony auntMaybe he was embarrassed that he didn't finish off and didn't want to ask you to do it for him.

I unfortunately suffer from not being able to finish 95% of the time even if I have a woman doing it for me and I'd imagine they take offence because they can't make it happen so I just usually do it myself or sometimes not at all. May not be the same for your bf but it's a thought.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2016):

I'm not sure if it's the same for males but the reason I would do something similar is because it's soooo great you want more and don't want to shock your partner for more! Usually someone with a high sex drive :) doesn't mean anything, he was happy & wanted to re live and enjoy the moment...

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A female reader, Youcannotbeserious United Kingdom + , writes (10 August 2016):

Youcannotbeserious agony auntI would guess he didn't have an orgasm, so was "finishing off" while you were in the bathroom.

If he masturbates a lot, he could have become "unfamiliar" with the sensation of penetrative sex and actually need a hand to finish (pardon the pun).

Did you not ask him what was going on?

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (10 August 2016):

BrownWolf agony aunt

MEN!!!! Yes I said it...Young fools who think a hand is a vagina...SMACK!!!

One reason...He did not have an orgasm when you had sex, so he was trying to get off...While there is a hot naked woman right there...(banging head against the wall)

Two...He had an orgasm, but wants to get hard again for round two...Hot naked woman right there...with hands, lips and a vagina...(banging head...nope)

Next time...take it away from him. Tell him it is for your use only, not his. :))

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