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writes: the man I fell in love with has been seeing a marriedwoman for 6 years. i have been with him 4.5. we gotmarried l year ago. he keeps calling her and tellingher he loves her. he tells me to give him another chance he wont call her any more. but i catch him again and again. i cannot deal with them, but why did he marry me and why can he not give her up. sheis only 45 years old and he is 80. i am 68.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2011): He is robbing the cradle.
the reason he didn't marry her is because she was already married.
Maybe the reason he married you is because he wanted someone to take care of him in declining years. He wants someone he can lean on through health problems or increasing mobility issues. But she was already married. So that's why he married you.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (21 January 2011):
 You married him knowing he was a cheater. I know you were hoping he would change, but people don't usually change unless THEY want to, really bad.
He will never break it off with her, you can count on that.
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reader, cry +, writes (21 January 2011):
 well i would divorce him, take all the money and go on vacation . age aint nothin but a numbe honey, and we only have so long. is this how u want to live the rest of ur life? its in ur hands best of luck AK
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reader, thedivette +, writes (21 January 2011):
I hate to say it but his age might have a lot to do with it. Senility? Who knows. But I think what matters most is how the other woman takes it. If she seems receptive than you have a problem. If not, then it's just an annoying habit he has and there's nothing to worry about. But it seems like you knew this when you married him and you either have to find a way to live with it or move on.
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