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writes:Okay so this is going to be long and I am really sorry for it.Okay so over the summer I ended up breaking u with my ex boyfriend, who is really sweet, kind and funny. I broke up with him because I was constantly mad around him and have no idea why.So after about a month of being single I went out with my other ex boyfriend. We dated for about a week secretly then my parents found out. (they didnt like him very much so I decided not to tell them.) Well once they found out they made me break up with him but him and I continued to date secretly for about 2 months and then I broke up with him not being able to keep the secret much longer. then later that week he came over to talk to my dad about dating me again and my father is still thinking if he'll let me date him right now or not.Well now I got a new Boyfriend (that i am dating secretly as well....my parents dont want me dating at all right now actually but I want to.) I like him alot and at least I get a chance to talk to him and see him everyday. But he sort of scares me a little, but that just makes me like him more cuz, well my friends call me an adrenaline junky. But I dont know if its very healthy.So what I am asking is which one of the guys should I choose, cuz honestly I've got no clue. I like them all, and I am NOT dating more then one of them at a time.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 October 2011):
If you don't know which one to pick, you aren't ready to date ANY of them
And honestly, if you parents have said no dating, then you shouldn't BE dating.
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (26 October 2011):
 I find it kind of bad that you have gone ahead and started dating another boy when the one you recently broke up with is making the effort to sort things out with your dad, don't you think you should of waited or told him your with someone else?
Anyway no one can decide the answer except you, look into your heart and just think out of all three of these boys which one did you have the most fun with which one do you still think about everyday despite being with your current bf.
I think once you do that you will find your answer.
P.s also maybe in future you shouldn't move on so quickly it sounds like you went to your next boyfriend despite still really liking your previous one. Good luck anyway x
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (26 October 2011):
 NOT the one that scares you a little!!! He's not the right one. ALWAYS listen to that little voice in the back of your head that says things like"he kinda scares me a little" that little voice is your best mechanism to save your life. I'm not joking..run
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