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writes:Have looked and having trouble finding, yet I KNOW they exist. I am a single male, seeking a female for a relationship and eventual marriage. I am mostly submissive and definitely a cuckold. Seeing my gf having sex with men is amazingly erotic. I am now seeking a female who is also seeking a relationship but is willing to cuckold me and become pregnant by another man after we are married. I KNOW there are women out there who have the same desires as I, but they must all be hiding!! Suggestions? And don't give me some speech about how YOU feel this is wrong or how doomed it is or any other comments other than suggestions on where to find a mate. I am not interested in hearing moral opinions on MY life and MY choices. Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): Hi
Probably need to check a swingers joint's out and/or SM clubs you could find some one with the same preferences and lifestyle choices. I don't think this is fantasy, it is just how you want to live your life, and quite a few do live their lives like this.
If you don't want children I would make it clear at the outset and let her know she can still have children.
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reader, celtic_tiger  +, writes (3 January 2016):
 Regardless of your sexual preferences....
You are being incredibly selfish here. You are not considering the health, wellbeing or potential harm that could be done to any child created in these circumstances.
Can you imagine how confused, mixed up, and scarred a child could be once they learn the truth of the matter?
You also have no regards for the potential "sperm doner" or the long term legal/social/emotional wellbeing of everyone involved in your fantasy.
What happens about paternity? Legal parent status? Child support, health conditions, etc etc etc etc.....
What about residence? Where will the child live? Will the other man have access rights? Who will it call "dad"?
I cannot imagine many men would be willing to be part of such a set up.
Is changing nappies and cleaning up vomit part of your fantasy? Or will you neglect any part of this responsibility as it was not in your plan?
You wish to step into a legal and emotional minefield. All for your own sexual gratification!
A fantasy is fine when it only exists in your own head. It is fine when it exists between two people in a relationship who both want the same thing. But when you start to bring in real innocent people in to them, real life emotional consequences appear and usually (if you go by the questions here on DC) it all hits the fan and suddenly the "fantasy" is not quite what you imagined it would be, but turns into a nightmare instead.
I would think you will struggle to find any woman who would be willing to create a child and give birth in such circumstances. For most women the maternal instinct to protect is too strong and will eclipse any sexual fantasy you have.
At some point a line has to be drawn between sex and real life. When you cannot differentiate between the two, expect only troubles to come of it.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (3 January 2016):
The problem isn’t about what is right or wrong and in whose opinion, but that this desire is extremely unusual. When it’s hard even to find something on the internet, you know it’s something very out of the ordinary. I tried various Google searches. “Find cuckold partner,” was probably the best one. It turns up a mix of forums, sites explaining cuckolding (I admit, I got an education reading this question), and cuckold dating. That might be your best option.
I would imagine, though, that your additional desire for her actually to get pregnant by another man will be extreme even to some with this fetish. I have to ask, have you considered the child in any of this? 18 years of maintenance, commitment and always having to put some-one else first is a lot of responsibility. I wonder when you’d explain to the child that he/she was born as a consequence of your wish to fulfil a fantasy. And what about its paternity? How will that be dealt with?
You say you don’t want a lecture and I’m not giving you one. I am, however, genuinely baffled and hope you’ve given thought to some pretty big consequences.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): Online
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2016): This is definitely not the website to look for that stuff or ask for this. I even question why the moderators let this question through. As much as you may not want to hear it, this needs to stay a fantasy for you. If you girlfriend/wife was to get pregnant and deliver the child, that would be so incredibly scarring on them when they grow up. Women like this in fact DON'T exist in real life. Only in pornography.
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