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writes:Hi I am 16 yrs old and I have never had sex or done anything more than making out with girls, even though I have had a few sort of longterm girlfriends (7.5 months the longest... its long for my age I think). I'm not abstinent so to speak but the opportunity has never risen since it's never felt like the right time or the right girl.Given my lack of experience... I want to learn how to have sex and please a woman.. I don't watch porn and am not into it (plus I have heard that its not really a good guide) but I want to have some knowledge of female anatomy before I get intimate with a girl so I'm not really terrible... where can I learn what women like? I'm nearly 17 and I know that eventually I'll get serious with a girlfriend and I don't want to disappoint her. (there is sort of a girl I have in mind, we aren't dating yet but we are becoming close friends and I'm developing feelings for her...)Please point me in the right direction!Thanks.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 July 2008):
Why didn't you have sex eduacation at school?
See if there are any family planning or educational places near by who can show you diagrams and explain the fact of life to you.
If your parents stopped you from getting sex ed then go and ask them.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (8 July 2008):
 "where can i learn what women like"... a real genuine beautiful woman of value and dignity wants a man that will committ himself to her eternally so that she can share with him the most precious moment in her life : sex. she wants a man that will promise to stay with her in oneness and will see a future with this man she joins herself to till death. Sex is sex and making love is different from ordinary sex. a woman wants to be made love to and be offered security that the man she makes love with will always be there. Sex is very spiritual and somethin that is spiritual will either be evil or sacred... if i would have a forum to explain this in detail i would.
build your relationship.... some studies reveal that highest percentile of sex before marriage only last btn 4mths - 2years. Learn how to build your self control and if you are keen in marriage, as you show, someday this will reward you.. if ur gf is not patient then she will not be patient in other things in marriage... (see how courts have made profits in Divorces all over the world, see how many married ppl are unhappy nowadays becoz they lacked self control) i would urge you to seek the meaning of true love as much as you seek sexual pleasures which just meet physical satisfaction and leave the spiritual part wanting...
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reader, john08 +, writes (8 July 2008):
ok i just thought id say that most women like different things
also you say youve never gone beyond kissing beofore, why jump into the deep end?
i think you should start with other stuff and build up to sex.
at least that way you would be more confortable.
also i just thought id mention dont be too annoyed if your first time feels like the biggest disapointment of your life (i know mine did)
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (8 July 2008):
 JUST GO TO WHAT WOMEN WANT IN THE BEDROOM!!!!!!:)
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (8 July 2008):
Hi Hunny
I found you a link for a book that may help alot, but after saying that not all women are the same..Sometimes when I read what men think women want I chuckle n grunt my fiance spent alot of time watching certain programes when younger so he could please his woman and as I told him every single woman is different how can 1 person speak for us all not possible..I'll send you the link hunny but remember you are you and the way you are is why the woman wanted to be with you, Many men think if they are great in the bedroom department then thats all they have to put in forget the rest of the time its more than that love, You will be cared and loved more by the way you are in and out of the bedroom if you are a loving person that will show in the bedroom even if you have never done it before love....
http://books.google.co.uk/books?id=syR2Y2eMkKQC&pg=PA439&lpg=PA439&dq=WHAT+WOMEN+WANT+IN+THE+BEDROOM&source=web&ots=ZyA5oiaDEf&sig=OqqETYhjU0BxS1ug25YzQlhekkM&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=5&ct=result#PPA438,M1
Thats a bit long but hey ho Im sure it wont come out that way when I send this TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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