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At times he's too attentive, then he backs off, I am confused, please help?

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Question - (8 July 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ffingluvyouXXX writes:

Me and my ex boyfriend are back together. I couldnt be anymore happier to be with him again. Its been months since we have been dating. He dumped me last time cause aparently i was being a ***** and i got mad over little things. Last time we dated he would send me the sweetest love letters and sweet things for exsample here is one:

ive said it so much, I LOVE U! i love u more than i ever thot possible for anything. if i could spend all day every day w/ u i would. ur the only thing thats on my mind. and if im not thinking of u im thinking about how lucky i must b 2 have found the perfect girl in my life. tho saying i love u has become so common w/ us i still mean it every time as much as i can mean it. ive tried 2 tell u how much i love u and how perfect u r, but i can never say enough 2 describe u. not even this long message can say how much i love u. it can only say so much. but every word of it is true. i can promise u that. and if i could promise u anything else it would b that i love u and always will. all of this is just from the top of my head. i didnt have 2 spend hours thinking about wat 2 say because ur so amazing and i love u so much. i kno im saying alot but im sure that ull b happy to read all of this. i couldcontinue on and on even tho it looks like ive said everything that needs 2 b said. i cant seem 2 stop thinking about u and i hope i never stop, because just thinking about u makes me so happy! ive never in a lifetime wrote or even thot i would write something like this or this long w/out having 2 repeat myself over and over again, but that just shows how amazing and how loved u truely r. if u want 2 save this mssg then i would hope that anytime u feel sad that u could look at it. ur deffinatly one of a kind. and i couldnt b happier just 2 kno that im w/ u. i wouldnt want any1 else, ever. im sorry i wrote so much but still couldnt describe fully how much i truely love u. so ill stop even tho theres still more that i want 2 express but just cant fit into words. so ill just have 2 stick w/ i love u. ill say it over and over again but everytime i mean it more and more. thank u for having me in ur life. thank u for making me happier than ive ever been. I LOVE U!

Yeah i know, its a little much. But i absoultly loved it. He send that the last time we dated. But all the sudden he just stopped saying sweet things, calling me, and texting me.

I have to be the first one to text

I have to be the first one to call.

I have to be the one in charge of EVERYTHING.

it almost seems like he doesnt like me

Idk what to do!!!!!!!!!

helppp

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008):

You could confront him about it.

Theres nothing more I can say you can't assume he doesn't like you because you don't know that. You don't know what he's thinking.

I suggest you don't do it over the phone either, but face to face.

Just ask what you want to, let everything out and he'll follow suit. If you can work your way through the problems then thats when the relationship gets stronger. If you can't, thats when it stops and ends.

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