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reader, The Great Mark Says  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 oh my god... this is mildly confusing and amusing. and im not sure where to begin. but you were mad him for one day. was that one day of being mad worth throwing the marriage away?
second do you actually have proof of the wedding? because this is just so odd and weird kinda. to me it sounds like the world worst dirty trick or joke or something...
either way this is one sticky mess, good luck but we need a little more info
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 You were his first option but your ejected his offer and he chose the second option.
I guess he did not love you deep enough to wait for you .
Now that he has married his ex,this will bring the curtain down on your relationship.
There is not much you can do now but to rebuild your life from scratch again.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 But they've already been living together for 2 years, I think she's probably forgiven him already.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 I think it makes little sense to stay with him when he marries someone else just out of spite.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (14 May 2010):
Am I crazy... are you aunts and uncles reading a different story to me. His wife of 2 weeks who has been living with another man, finally wants him back, and you suggest this woman who has lived with him for two years should walk away and give him back.
I know some of you value marriage, but I think your advice is strange.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (14 May 2010):
He was wuth his wife for 2 weeks. He married her because you made him angry. He's been living with you for 2years. They don't have a proper marriage. He and you have behaved like children. Tell him to put in for a divorce. Two years with you, that should be reason enough. There is no reason why he should continue to stay married to a woman he dosen't see.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 May 2010):
Hell yes leave him alone. You could be the one he deserts next. And his rash reaction shows how little he cared for anyone. If he was the guy for you, then you would have said 'yes' at the time.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 What makes you think it is a good idea to be with someone who goes of and marries someone else when involved with you?
And who turns down a marriage proposal just because you are bit mad at him one day?
Seems to me both of you behave extremely.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (14 May 2010):
 Yes. They may have "broken up" but their are still married... move on and find a man who is all yours, not someones leftovers.
It makes no sense to stay with him.
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