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writes:i really need help, me and my partner are going away for the weekend to see his family and staying in a hotel. hes paying and the thing is he wants me to wear sumthing sexy well where in the hotel, i dont have a clue what to wear as have never done anything like this beforeive not much confident in my body and self as all i see myself is fat, im not exactly on the small side ive said to him im not into that sort of thing but i kinda wanna do it, my belly isnt exactly flat not in the slightest and will prob think i need to cover myself up even tho hes seen it all before i dont want sumthing to make me look even more fatter then am.. i want sumthing flattering :/doesanyone have any suggestions on what i can wear thats sexy thats also not to reaveling i dont want to wear just a bra and bottoms sumthing to cover the whole of my top half plzplz help very much appricate it
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reader, Abella  +, writes (5 October 2012):
 I do hope the weekend went well.
And I hope you found something nice to wear.
This has been a wakeup call that you have not been paying enough attention to the very important aspect of being sensual - and that is your underwear and your lingerie.
So start being better prepared for next time.
If you are feeling a little voluptuous it does not mean that you shold deny yourself the fun of nice lingerie.
If your curvy shape is just a tiny bit over then normal mainstream suppliers will suffice.
http://www.bedtimeflirt.com/
http://www.lingerie.co.uk/
and if you want to follow the methods to create high quality couture lingerie then this guide is for you:
http://www.threadsmagazine.com/item/4210/create-couture-lingerie
This is to give you some great ideas.
But want to look like a knockout?
And smooth your bumpy bits then consider a plunging neckline to showcase your cleavage and then make the gown sweep to the floor perhaps with a side split.
For all I know you may be a nice size 8 andbe carrying an extra 8 ounce. So I am not going to suggest you look at plus sizes.
think soft venise lace and floaty georgette fabrics.
Such materials drape well and are very forgiving.
Here are some ideas - but remember no matter how expensive purchased lingerie is you can learn to make your own at a small fraction of the cost of purchased lingerie.
The last link shows a step by step tutorial on how to make a camisole with applied lace.
I prefer really pretty pale lingerie with lace. If you learn to make your own then always finish off seams very neatly and use only soft fabrics that will feel gorgeous on your skin. Satin in a lovely softy colour can look amazing when made into a night gown.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 September 2012):
 Corsets are great if you're feeling sensitive about your tummy area. I can not recommend them enough! I love Victoria's Secret, but Fredrick's of Hollywood is definitely the place to go for a corset.
You'll have to adjust to it - they're definitely not the most comfortable things... but you'll feel like a fox, and your bod will look hot! Of course, your body will look the hottest au naturelle - nature made us all goddesses - all shapes, all sizes. Your man will find you the very very sexiest if you're naked and excited to have sex with him!
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (26 September 2012):
 Baby doll "nighties" can look great on just about ANY size/shape body.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (25 September 2012):
 The best advice is to visit a lingerie store and try on different outfits. I've done this a few times. I looked online and thought something looked great but when trying it on it didn't fit my body well at all. I always go to Victoria's secret but there are other lingerie shops. What I found is finding something to suit my personality as well as look good for my body. I picked out a baby doll type of top and cute panties for my wedding night. The top flowed out and was very cute sexy, which is me, in not overtly sexy. And I try to find tops that will push my boobs up a little since I don't have much up top. Also I don't like anything too revealing, thongs are what I mean, so I get full cute panties. So my advice is go shopping! Try on all sorts of things you see and you will find something that feels like you and feels sexy. Also remember, your boyfriend loves your body so don't feel too self conscious or fat. He obviously wants to see you dressed sexy so that should give you the confidence to go for it!
I think I hit enter too soon by accident so my answer was split up and written twice, sorry about that.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (25 September 2012):
The best advice is to visit a lingerie store and try on different outfits. I've done this a few times. I looked online and thought something looked great but when trying it on it didn't fit my body well at all. I always go to Victoria's secret but there are other lingerie shops. What I found is finding something to suit my personality as well as look good for my body. I picked out a baby doll type of top and cute panties for my wedding night. The top flowed of and was very cute sexy, which is me, I'm not
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 September 2012):
If you are that worried (and I doubt that you really need to be, as it seems that most women worry about things that don't even exist!!!!), then why don't you try a provocative night dress - silk, or partially see through?
There's something extremely sexy about mystery in a woman - and a night dress adds to it!! A man does like to guess as to what is underneath...
Have fun.
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reader, izabella637 +, writes (25 September 2012):
my husband is a lingerie freak when we have sex he always wants me to wear something different and i could lose a pound or 2 myself so i know what you mean. One thing i have is a sexy corset which covers my stomach and makes my boobs look really cute but by the ones that have those hooks for stockings. Buy ripped sexy stockings and put on some heels and ull be great.
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