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What is he trying to do, by flirting with both of us? We've even had an argument over him!

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Question - (24 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 April 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

im confused over who this lad likes: me or my mate. he texts me all the time n always tells me im funny n that he has a laugh with me, as well as this he tells me he finds me good looking with a nice body. however, when both me n my mate are around him he'll flirt with her n hardly acknowledge me! this is after hes said he finds her boring! me and my mate have even argued over this! is he trying to play us off against each other? im so confused! PS: I dont know if it makes any difference but he is two years older than both me n my mate. x

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2008):

Don't ever argue with a friend over a boy, it is never worth it.

He's probably just playing a game and flirting with both of you. He's probably not really interested in either of you.

He might just be a flirty guy. Either way just don't take him seriously.

Take his compliments and then take that confidence and flirt with some other guys.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Susan Strict United Kingdom +, writes (24 April 2008):

Susan Strict agony auntHe's probably only playing, and why not? You say he's flirting; well, that's fine. If and when it becomes a seriously relationship with either of you, then that would be a different matter. Right now it's fun; it's a game. He doesn't seem to be taking it seriously, so you shouldn't take it seriously either. Just enjoy it.

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