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My girlfriend is cheating - what should I do?

Q.   Hi - my gf cheated on me twice with the same guy an I'm worried she has feelings for him. She says she doesn't but I'm not sure I forgave her the first time. I just found out she has done it again. I don't want to lose her because I love her so m...

A.   19 July 2008: take it from me :( it will haunt you. just take a break and think about what your gonna do and please dont get back together unless you are ready. be careful with your heart because if you dont you will loose it to someone who really doesn't want ... (read in full...)

How do I tell this man I need to call it quits, because he's been cheating on me?

Q.   I have been involved with a man now for 4 years and found out that he has been sleeping with other women probably the whole time he has been with me. The way i found out was I called his house to see what was going on and another women answered. She ...

A.   13 July 2008: first of all let me say that i am so sorry for what has happened. it would be wonderful to get even and sometimes it makes you feel happy and good but most of the time it doesnt i know this might sound juvenile but why dont you right all of your ... (read in full...)

We were each other's first love so I wonder if that is a rather hard bond to break despite of the problems that lead to teh break up?

Q.   I just wanted to ask. Me and my girlfriend split up about 7 weeks ago now. We were in contact for the first 5 weeks, we met up twice and text each other and stuff. Then i decided to call her and tell her how i felt, she didnt want us to get b...

A.   13 July 2008: you broke the bond and the reason she wont get back together with you is because she probably hasn't seen a change. its easy to just give up and let it go but what of the fight? did anyone say that relationships were gonna be simple? hell no! and ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is very experienced, I am a virgin, I don't want to let this get in the way but I can't stop thinking about the number of times she's done it! help!

Q.   Ok well unfortuantly I don't exactly have the most self-confidence and well i'm often subject to be jealous of one of my gf's ex's they did it about 35 times while they were together over about 8 months or something like that (I know unfortunately ...

A.   12 July 2008: ok try this: plan a special talk night :) i know it sounds weird but its only one time a week where you talk bout everything thats bothering you. suggest it to her she will be on board and think its very cool that you brought it up. that way you ... (read in full...)

How do I ask the girl in the ice cream shop out for a date?

Q.   Hi, there is this attractive girl who works at a local ice cream shop. Ive never had a big conversation with her, and i was wondering how i would go about asking her to go on a date? I was thinking about asking her out for dinner, how shou...

A.   12 July 2008: offer to buy her ice cream :) that would be cute lol umm on a serious note has she flirted with you?... (read in full...)

What is he trying to accomplish by doing all this?

Q.   Hey everyone. Im so lost right now. i have nowhere else to turn to! Here is the story; recently I broke up with my ex because he got distant and I juss didnt trust him anymore. I found comments from other girls calling him babe n stuff on his ...

A.   12 July 2008: well your friends should not have gotten into it it was between you and him so i think he is upset that your friends got involved. tell him that you got your friends involved and he will flip out on you ... (read in full...)

Is he really the one stealing pictures?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. I met him online and love him dearly, but I'm not sure if the pictures he's shown me are real. He told me that a lot of people have stolen his pictures on myspace, is He really the one stealing the ...

A.   12 July 2008: no problem :) have a great day tomorrow... (read in full...)

I hate myself for cheating, but I cannot seem to stop! I need to understand why I am doing this...

Q.   Ok, i know people will have little sympathy for me but I cannot stay faithful. My parents died when I was 3 and I was raised by my aunt and uncle who never really had much time for me. They were'nt affectionate and in some ways seemed to resent...

A.   12 July 2008: i have never cheated on anyone but i understand why it is done. you have to first understand that cheating is a very selfish act and you shouldn't be selfish when you are in a relationship also take time to realize that he is patient but how ... (read in full...)

Is he really the one stealing pictures?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. I met him online and love him dearly, but I'm not sure if the pictures he's shown me are real. He told me that a lot of people have stolen his pictures on myspace, is He really the one stealing the ...

A.   12 July 2008: no ask him trust me if you ask his mother he will be furious just ask him but remember to be very understanding he might be a little self conscious and if he wont tell you then you can ask his mother and explain to her the situation but thats only ... (read in full...)

Is he really the one stealing pictures?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. I met him online and love him dearly, but I'm not sure if the pictures he's shown me are real. He told me that a lot of people have stolen his pictures on myspace, is He really the one stealing the ...

A.   12 July 2008: ask him and tell him that you love him for who he is and not what he looks like. repeat to him that you love a man with personality and that he has plenty of it. tell him not to be scared eventually you will get the truth out of him... (read in full...)

Had great chemistry with him, but he was a cheater, will I find someones else who I connect with, as I did with him?

Q.   I dated this guy for a year. we clicked and i thought he was the one.although he consistently cheated i was sure i was the one. anyway i recently ended it coz i couldnt take it anymore.we had so much chemistry though i cant help thinking ill never ...

A.   11 July 2008: your chances are very great. think about it there are roughly a billion people in this world and your telling me that a unfaithful uncaring guy was the one? it will be hard but be open to new things clear you head and take a deep breath and go for ... (read in full...)

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