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writes: Well, things were going OK in my relationship but now I don't know again.This weekend I was out with the girlfriend and we bumped into one of my mates who's got 10yrs on me and weighs 19 stone (overweight). He used to be a rugby player and looks rugged I guess. My girlfriend had met him briefly previously and said he looked like he'd be good to have a moider too. I didn't think much of it till this weekend.When he appeared, her face lit up and she was like a little school girl around him. She is a very chatty girl I guess it's just that she seemed to be almost grovelling. At one point he went to the bar to get drinks and she said that he was lovely. Now I think she meant it in a way that means he was nice, but I don't know. She's hardly going to admit that she fancies him! I think she thinks he's a real gentleman or something but he isn't. He's cheated on his partner of 20years loads of times.Maybe I am being insecure here but the way her face and personality changed when he arrived, I don't know. She does tend to go for people who are different. And, I've heard her say someone else was lovely who I'm pretty sure she fancied.I wouldn't mind her fancying him, it's just that I felt like I could walk out of the pub and she'd hardly have noticed :(We haven't been getting on fantastically recently either, although things seemed to be going better.One other thing, her father had nothing to do with her and her brother when she was a kid, I wonder if she's looking for a father figure.
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (13 March 2007):
She could be. Im always nice to my boyfriends friends so i dont cause problems between me and him. Perhaps she is trying to keep on your good side by getting on with your friends. I bet she wouldnt think he was so lovely if she knew what an unfaithful sod he is.i mean you dont have to bad mouth him,and she might not even fancy him, but if you want to make sure. Just mention what hes REALLY like, say you worry about his partners feelings/health being with someone that puts her through so much hurt.
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