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I have become controlling and obsessive because of trust issues, I really love him and WANT to trust him more. How can I do this?

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Question - (13 March 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *-carlie-- writes:

dear cupid

what do you think the best thing for me to do is ?

i really need some help . i have been living with my boyfreind almost a year . we have always had trust issues and ive always confronted him when i think something is going on . we used to live far apart and saw each other once a month . since we have lived together my accusations have got much worse , i have become controlling and obsessive

my boyfreind never goes out. when he does go out i am always worried and sulk for days . i also treat him badly when i think he has cheated . he has told me constantly that he loves me and would never cheat but a part of me thinks he is . we are almost on the verge of breaking up thanks to my accusations . i really love him and want to trust him ,

please help

angela

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A female reader, aunt wendy United Kingdom +, writes (14 March 2007):

you both have to sit down and have a good heart to heart and explain what it is that makes you feel like this.in a relationship there has to be complete trust on both sides.you could start and go out with your friends when he goes out so you dont feel so bad and your kept busy,if you keep quizzing and accusing him you will just push him further away.....good luck

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