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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (29 April 2011):
 he sends texts saying you should end it? (sorry I have a hard time understanding what you are saying)is he testing you? who knows.I think you need to stop worrying about HIM and focus on yourself... do you want to put up with this emotional turmoil?
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reader, mcocoa33 +, writes (29 April 2011):
mcocoa33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe has been distances all day with basically should just end it are is he testing me to see if i going to go off are what
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reader, mcocoa33 +, writes (29 April 2011):
mcocoa33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI like to thank every for your help
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reader, mcocoa33 +, writes (28 April 2011):
mcocoa33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk he text me today saying he sorry shoule expect are just be done with it
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 April 2011):
within a year make it work?
you mean be in the same city?
who is moving to who?
so you guys meet halfway and get a hotel?
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reader, mcocoa33 +, writes (28 April 2011):
mcocoa33 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe where meeting a half way point we been dating for 3 months but within a year we going to make it work
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 April 2011):
let me get this rightyou were going to drive four hours to pick up your boyfriend and bring him to you... I need some more info1. how long have you guys been dating?2. how often do you see each other?3. what effort does he make to see you, contact you, or otherwise show he's committed to you?I am in an LDR but we are only 2 hours apart and I go to see my BF pretty much every weekendwe plan to close the distance within a year or so and that's the only thing making this distance easy is knowing it's coming to an end eventually...sounds like he needed you to be there not to come get him so what's up with that?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): Words can easily be misunderstood when they are just text on a screen. He may have thought you were pressuring him, esp. if you're asking him if he's ready for a relationship when you guys are already in one. Let him know you understand that his kids come first. Give him some space, maybe call him and say you just wanted to say hi and make sure he and his son are ok. Time will tell.
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