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*kyrider67
writes: my problem there is this girl i have really really really liked since 6th grade and we are in 10th grade now.it seems like every time i try and be with her she has a bf/gf or just broke up with him/her. When that happens and she is emotionally distressed at breaking up, so i am the one who always has to put her heart back together and convince her not to consider impulsive unwise actions when she gets emotional.Later after i put her back together she just toys with me and uses me just to make people jealous. Now I'm getting tired of it, but i cant help but have strong feelings for her .After 4 years she has finally confessed that she has a lot of feeling for me and that made me so happy but at the same time i felt like i didn't care.it only seems like she pays attention to me or flirts with me when I'm taken.i want 2 date her. but i found another girl who loves me and I'm currently dating this new girl and i don't know if i should stay with my gf or go with the other girl i have had feelings for, for a long time.the two girls both know each other and hate each other.sooooooooooo who do i choose???what do i do???help!!!!plz!!!
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (11 April 2011):
Hi. My suggestion is go for it!
You have nothing to lose.
But make absolutely sure that she does not want to play games with you or any of that kind of nonsense.
Just be wary.
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reader, skyrider67 +, writes (10 April 2011):
skyrider67 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i see wht u mean.
but just a couple of hours ago she told me to meet her at our skool and for some reason it seemed like she was showing me the old her the side i fell for and she told me "she was blind not to see wht was in front of me and now i see wht a great guy u are"
so now I'm even more confused
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reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (10 April 2011):
Hi there. The first girl you have liked for many years, seems to use you.She also wants what she can't have.By that, I mean it's a challenge to see if she can get you for herself - when you have someone - but if you were available, it would no longer be a challenge to her and so she would have no interest to do so.I don't think that to pursue someone like that would bring you much happiness. You probably wouldn't know where you stood with her. That's not a good place to be.This other girl who likes you, does sound like a good prospect for a girlfriend. She does sound sincere.If I were you, the wise thing to do would have to be to go out with this other girl, who does seem genuine and would treat you well and with respect and dignity.The first girl will eventually find that she has no-one, if that's all she does. Play one boy against another and trying to make people jealous all the time. That's pretty shallow, don't you think?It definitely lacks sincerity of any kind. Don't even consider the first girl. She only wants to play games. All she's doing is wasting your time. You don't need that nonsense.You can do much better than that, believe me.Take care and best wishes.
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reader, hotttmess +, writes (10 April 2011):
 When choosing between two people, always choose the second or none at all. Because if you were happy with the first, there wouldn't be a second.
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