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What can my married lover do for me?

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Question - (12 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 May 2009)
A female Albania age 41-50, *eta writes:

Dear cupid i am in love with a married man not because I wanted that but we were met each other with his reason, he is married and have 3 children but not happy in his marriage they were divorced many times but children was the reason to be together but separate in their house, i met him before a year he loves me calls me everday. Every day he write me that he love me forever and he will love me until his life, he is in a big trouble what to do with me because also he dosent want to break up never with me because is my soul mate, we love each other very much, i love him and i dont think that i ever see any one else in my life, also i am divorced but i dont have children i am ready do do everything for him, and my question is what he can do for me? because he loves me .

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A female reader, jeta Albania +, writes (14 May 2009):

jeta is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank you very much i will do something .......

god bless you

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2009):

Do not have a relationship with someone who is married. My ex-wife had an affair and it absolutely destroyed me and it really screwed her up. If someone who is married is having an extra-marital affair, they are obviously confused and not a good person. Tell him that you will not contiue the relationship until he gets divorced.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (12 May 2009):

Honeypie agony auntOh he's got you fooled good.. He's married. He has no intentions of leaving her for you, so if you choose to have a relationship with him, all you get is the leftovers.. Sorta the crumbs of the wife's table.. Are you satisfied with that?

He gets his cake and eat it too.

Why not have some self respect and look for a man who is not only single, but available?

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A male reader, mikefromms United States +, writes (12 May 2009):

Run! Run fast! There are plenty of available good men out there. Think with your mind not your emotions. You know it sounds like you are thinking since you did ask the question: what can he do for you?

You answer that. I think you know.

Mikefromms

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

First of all, you should realize that he and his wife are still having sex whether you want to believe that or not. It's also convenient for him to promise you the world when he has a built in reason (married to someone else) for not giving it to you. This is a man good at telling people what they want to hear, you and his wife. What's the point in being soul mates when you can be together but he chooses to stay in his supposedly "unhappy" marriage? Doesn't make sense. He's been willing to divorce her before yet now that he's met the love of his life, he can't? I think he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him.

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