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What can I do to get a guy that's taken?

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Question - (21 February 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 March 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey! what can i do to get a guy that's taken? I mean dont get me wrong. I would never want to see someone hurt but actually they dont love eachother and she treats him very badly. he told me he likes me. but i know hes stil doubting it. what can i say or how do i act? what do i do to convince him? any advice will be very appreciated! thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2007):

Hey Im where you are. I like a guy who is taken by this chick who treats him badly and he said he liked me... now hes avoiding me. except, i met him through my boyfriend, who treats him like shit... anyway, now to your question. Relate to him in any way, be a little flirty and wear something that you know will catch his attention. hey this guy thought my shoes and hair were pretty. birthday coming up? get him something you know will remind him of you, but most of all be a freind. Hope you have better luck than me

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A female reader, cherri sparkle United Kingdom +, writes (23 February 2007):

never take one side of the story as gospel if he wanted to leave her he would and darlin why lower youself to involve yourself in somethin seedy like somebody elses relationship a man will say pretty much anything to a woman he knows is intrested cos he knows you will belive anything he tells you

think of it like this if he will do it to her you wont be any different

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007):

lol, how do we know he is a POS when she is the one doing all the schemeing?

Just let him know that when they are through, you'd be interesting in trying a relationship. Then leave it alone and go live your own life.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2007):

you can't thats a really mean thing to do just leave it because doing that carma will come back around and if you do, do that then he'll more then likely turn around and do the same to you

try and find a new guy you don't need a piece of shit like that

TRUST ME

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntMy first question is how you know they don't love each other and that she treats him badly. My guess is that he told you that hm? If so how very convenient. He wants you to feel sorry for him so that he can have his way with you. Any relationship that was that bad he wouldn't want to be a part of and wouldn't stand for it. The way I see it you have only one option. Next time you speak make it clear how you feel but that nothing can happen until his relationship is over. Even if he is the innocent victim in this situation he's the only person who can free himself from the vicious circle. Don't become his other woman, it's not fair on you or his girlfriend.

CD

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