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A woman calls on the phone and tells me all the sexual things she's done to MY BOYFRIEND, he says it's lies...

Q.   My boyfriend goes out at the weekend with his mates an always ends up at one of there houses after to carry the night on. He eneds up rolling in at silly times the next morning,he knows im not happy with it but he still dose it. last night he gets a ...

A.   10 April 2007: ring the girl!!! men will always lie when they are upto no good its naturally in their dna to lie. at the end of the day if hes nothing to hide then it wont matter to him and if on the other hand this woman is just trying to cause trouble then you ... (read in full...)

My bf's sex drive is lowering. What can I do to fix it?

Q.   my b/f and i dont have sex like we used to..we see each other 2-3 days..i remember last year a lot of times we would have sex 2 times in one night..lately its like once or twice a week..he doesnt seem as interested in it. Like we used to have it at ...

A.   7 April 2007: well if your not really happy with the amount of sex why dont you try to iniciate things? its always great at the start of a relationship when you have that honeymoon period sex is always great and as that period cools you tend to settle into s ... (read in full...)

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

A.   26 February 2007: hey as i replied in my response previously im 21 and my partner is 28 that is no issue whatsoevr the rigt person is just thst regardless of the age difference!! i think ur stressin about this too much just see what happens it really will open your ... (read in full...)

What can I do to get a guy that's taken?

Q.   hey! what can i do to get a guy that's taken? I mean dont get me wrong. I would never want to see someone hurt but actually they dont love eachother and she treats him very badly. he told me he likes me. but i know hes stil doubting it. what can i ...

A.   23 February 2007: never take one side of the story as gospel if he wanted to leave her he would and darlin why lower youself to involve yourself in somethin seedy like somebody elses relationship a man will say pretty much anything to a woman he knows is intrested ... (read in full...)

I'm 5 foot 3ish and weigh 133lbs, am I fat?

Q.   Help! I am 5'2/5'3ish and I weigh 133 lbs. I feel like I'm fat. It's getting out of control, I think about not eating and I've thrown up a couple of times.. ....

A.   23 February 2007: throwing up and starving yourself will not help it will only make your metabolism slow down so when you do start eating again your body will store the food as fat as it doesnt know when it will get its next meal. teenagers go one of two ways pile on ... (read in full...)

Been faking my orgasm with my bf. How do I achieve a proper one?

Q.   Ive been faking with my current bf. i feel i am close to orgasms but i never quite reach it. when i feel close i get a kind of scared feeling and stop him. i dont always get this feeling. what can i do to keep myself going and to make sure he always ...

A.   23 February 2007: seems there is something in your mind stopping you hun, the scared feeling probably comes from another area in your relationship that youre not entirely comfortable with. something is stopping you from relaxing and enjoying the sensation or maybe ... (read in full...)

I feel like I have to satisfy him every day, he's not pushing for it, it's just me!

Q.   I think I have some underlying issues concerning sex that need sorting. They've only really become obvious since I've been with my present partner, which is the past 2 years. I feel the need to have sex or satisfy him some other way all the time. I ...

A.   23 February 2007: insecurity i think is the answer to your question as in you dont feel comfortable enough just to chill and relax with him. im curious do you do other bonding things together? if not then maybe you should start things that you enjoy doing together ... (read in full...)

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

A.   23 February 2007: your right to feel uncomfortable lying about your age a girl should like who you really are and lies at the beginning are not a good start to any relationship, just be yourself thats all you need. there will be some who turn their nose up but they ... (read in full...)

My bfs dad caught us after oral sex and now I am so ashamed!!

Q.   Well, i was at my bfs house..and well his family are big nascar fans, and since they were watching the race..my bf and i decided to have oral sex... I was receiving..so when we were done i started buttoning my pants and his dad walked in..and ...

A.   20 February 2007: look if you're mature enough to be having sex you should be mature enough to understand so do parents thats how we all got here of course they understand at least he had a sense of humour about it. he will remember those times himself sneaking ... (read in full...)

My fiancee was caught kissing and cuddling another women!!

Q.   Hi Dear, My fiancee was caught with another woman cuddling and kissing each other by my friend and her husband in a night club,she alerted me immediately and when i confronted him he denied and decided to stop communicating with me.He only called m...

A.   20 February 2007: love he has deffinateley cheated and is obviously not bothered as he has just blanked you. you need to stop calling him see how he reacts then it doesnt seem to me like you talk about your feelings very much in this relationship i think its... (read in full...)

My gf says that she has not felt pleasure when we've had sex. What can I do?

Q.   what do you do if your gf says that she has not felt plesure when your having sex everytime but the one time you did it in my truck i really could use some help because i dont want are relationship to end because i am not able to plesure her beside ...

A.   20 February 2007: ask her what she likes start with the foreplay to learn where she is most sensative everybody has different arousal points and like to be stimulated in different ways try different love-making positions and tecniques to find what works for both of ... (read in full...)

Should we start all over again??

Q.   I had a bf who had an unresolved issue with his ex and feelings for his ex and really cant stand her life without him. I broke up with him for him to decide who he wants to be with in his life so i did give him an ultimatum wether to stay with his...

A.   20 February 2007: hi i feel for you on this one but you have to decide if after thet you are able to trust him when he says that hes in it 100 per cent. dealing with ex issues are always hard and when people rush into something else too soon it can often cause prob... (read in full...)

He keeps oggling women with big breasts, jerks off then says he has a low sex drive!!!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have lived together for over a year and he has oggled women with big breasts on more than one occasion surreptitiously(in front of me). He tells me size doesn't matter, yet he never touches my breasts. He plays peep-eye with other ...

A.   20 February 2007: hey first of all i dont think cheating is the answer you will only regret it and feel guilty in the end over something which is not your fault!! your husband is obviously sexually insensitive seems to me that he may have gone off full intercourse... (read in full...)

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

Q.   Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

A.   20 February 2007: hey dont worry about age seriously i am 21 and my partner is 28 we met when i was 17 and he 24 beleive me there is nothing perverse about dating a younger woman at all in fact i have friends in exectly the same senario as me as a general rule women ... (read in full...)

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