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writes:i always wondered what are the jealous rules when it comes to being in a relationship and having the opposite sex as friends?.. i mean is it ok to be with my bf and sometimes hang out with my guyfriends, is it okay to text them but only as friends nothing other than that. i mean im with my boyfriend and he gets really jealous around other guys idk why. im a girl who plays sports so i know a lot of guys as friends and all...hmm i wanna know how a relationship should be if having friends of the opposite sex. note: my bf used to be with a lot of girls and he almost flirted and went out with his girlfriends..what am i suppose to think about that. and he has lied to me before saying he never done anything with one girlfirend i trusted him but found thay went out. but i managed to get over that. also note: he is my first in everything im in love with him and would not ever cheat on him ..
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reader, person12345 +, writes (31 January 2011):
 He sounds like he has some serious jealousy/insecurity issues. He flirts with (and nearly cheats with) an ex, but gets angry at you for having friends? He needs to work on his issues before this relationship can move forward. It's unfair of him to ask you to stop having male friends in order to ease his fears. If they were texting you in the middle of the night or you were going on what could be considered dates (like going with one guy to dinner and a movie) I could see why he'd feel uneasy, but he has no right to demand you give up your male friends, especially if he flirts with other women.
It sounds like something may have happened with that other girl and he's projecting onto you. The lying about it is a big red flag. You should keep on eye on that...
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