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age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:We both date girls and we're both 32, . My "straight" guy friend at 14 said he "fell for me" in highschool. He said don't tell no one! We lose our virginity to each other and have sex for 2 years. 2019, I reached out, told him I've always had feelings, through a text and he blocks me. What is the deeper meaning?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious  + ♥, writes (5 July 2019):
 When someone blocks you, there is no "deeper" meaning. It is a clear and simple sign that they don't want any more contact from you.
The "deeper" question here is WHY did you text him and tell him this? Were you at a low point in your life and decided to reach out to someone from your past? If you had feelings for him, surely you should have told him when you were still together?
The fact he blocked you tells you he has consigned you to the past. He does not want to have any more contact with you. Respect his wishes and leave him alone. Then look at WHY you felt the need to reach out to him and try to fix it some other way.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (4 July 2019):
 What's the deeper meaning?
He isn't interested. He might want to continue to "seem" straight and date women only. He either don't WANT part of a male/male relationship or he has come to terms with the fact that he likes men, but want to date women or he is in denial.
EITHER way, he isn't interested so RESPECT that.
Maybe he also felt a little overwhelmed that you reached out and declared your feeling as SO much time has gone by. Easier to block you and continue whatever life-style he has now.
If you two didn't have contact for years... I think it's a bit "confrontational" to reach out and declare your feelings instead of GETTING to know who he is TODAY first. But I guess that is moot.
Leave him be. Take the HUGE hint.
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