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female
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30-35,
*lue---Skies
writes:okay well theres this guy i really like hes 16 (im 14) and we used to be pretty close and went away on tour together with the band, he used to flirt with me an hint to me quite a lot but i didnt say anything to him not thinking its genuine. just before we left coach to go home he gave me his mob number, so i txt him just saying hi etc. he then replied and gave me his msn. we used to chat quite a lot and he once asked me if i was single (i waS and so was he) but nothing more about it.its been a year now since iv properly seen and talked to him and he has a gf, but i miss him sooo much and i dont think a day has gone by without me thinking bout him. i often cry myself to sleep about him and wish i had taken the chance before, im really lost and dont kow what to doo. i really want to tell him how i feel, but dont think i have the guts too and dont know what to say to him not to scare him off too much. i know people wil say its just my hormones playing up, but still a year and i want him soo much i just dont know what to doo an advice pls help ! xx
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reader, sexi  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hi, there is not much wrong with you confessing your feelings for him now.You just have to prep yourself up for the option of rejection.He may decide that he still feels the same way and then you can consider yourself lucky or he may be content with this other girl (claiming that you have maid him wait too long ) either way its a chance that you would have to take to set to your mind at ease.Atleast once you tell him then youw ould know where you stand. If things dont go the way you want them to, do feel bad,Go out and meet other guys.I wish you all the luck,hun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): Hi, i clearly get what your going through i've been in this situation and still am, all i do is when i do see him smile and act like i don't like him, i know its stupid thing to do but what else can you do, i have no idea, when i got advice on this situation i was told to forget him, and forgetting the person you really like takes forever and i've been trying for 2 years but don't work so i suggest try finding some else move on with your life othr wise you'll be crying for him all the time and thats no good if you really want him bad and got the guts just tell him, how you feel. But as you said you haven't got the guts just like me, and all i've have really done is still like him but pretend infront of everyone i don't. Hope it helps even tho its not giving any advice.
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