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writes:I'e been with my boyfriend for nearly 11 months. ive known him for like 6 years and we have always had a thing for each other. Anyways my parents always have loved him, but when we started going out they didnt like him and do everything they can to try break us up. They have pushed him to far now and he doesnt know if he wants to be with me :(. he says he loves me and wants to be with me but he wants to break up with me aswell, because he doesnt see why its even worth it if my parents are like this.help :( i love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): omg i hate when parents are like that!!!!!!! my parents are the same!i think u just need to tell your parents straight.ask them why dont they want you to be with him.and if they cant give you a suitible answer then there just scared because they know you are growing up.you need to talk to your bf and tell him how you feel, tell him you dont want to loose him beacuse of your parents.if he realy loves you he will stay with you
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reader, sexi  +, writes (28 August 2007):
 Hi, i have been in the exact same situation. My parents never liked my bf at all. Eventually after 6 months they gave in and they allow him to see me at home now. Just speak to whichever parent you are closer with and try to explain your feelings for this guy. Tell this guy to hang in there as you really love him and he should be positive. This time will definately pass for you dear. Communicate with your mum.
Good Luck,Mail me if you wanna talk, i would be happy to share anything with you
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2007): That sucks. I'm sorry. Yeah in a weird way I know where he is coming from. I am not saying it is right for him not to fight for you (that is if he loves you). But I know how hard it is to deal with circumstances beyond his control. It can feel very discouraging. But this is not your fault ok? What you should do is tell him "ok. If that is what you want let's break up." And don't say anything more. And let him go. Give him a week or two. And don't call him. He is going to feel so bad that he suggested that and that he didn't fight for you. He is going to call and beg you back.
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