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anonymous
writes:I'm dating this guy nothing is official yet but I recently found out he has been talking to another girl using the same pick up lines on her as he used on me and been flirty and offering to meet up. Am I making a big deal of this ? Also should I confront him about it or just cut him loose and tell him of he asks ?
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reader, In.love.with.him  +, writes (22 December 2011):
 Wait until you are dating to be concerned about this.
Been there done that my boyfriend stopped all communications with a girl that was flirting with him mind you that had a long story behind it which Im not going to get into.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 December 2011):
 you're not official... he can do what he wants...flirt with who he wants..
if he wants to date more than one girl that's his choice as long as you guys are not a committed couple....
if you can't deal with him flirting with other girls and want more of a commitment you can either tell him and risk him saying NO or just end it now.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 December 2011):
 Well since you are not an official couple, you are more of a frind with benefits... there are no ties to this guy he is free to pursue other girls....
As him to make it official, and if he continues chatting up girls, dump him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2011): Well if you haven't made it official yet, then you really don't have anything to confront him with, as oficially he is free to do as he pleases. If I were you I would have a talk to him about making it official and being exclusive.
As it stands now, you would only be confronting him with someone that he has every right to be doing, and something that you have no right to get upset over because he isn't your boyfriend at all, you have just deemed him an unofficial boyfriend. Ask him to make it official. Good Luck.
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