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writes:Ok heres the deal.I'm 18 and a virgin... I had a few relationships when i was younger, and have done a few "sexual" things, but never actually had sex. Then something happened in my life that put me under extreme stress and girls were no longer my number 1 priority. Now however im feeling a lot better and getting a few offers from girls, however (heres the pathetic bit) i feel im stuck a few years behind evryone now, and im scared of being absoloutley rubbish therfore tarning my reputation forever! So heres my question Should i hire an escort, to get some practice in and lose the "1st time nerves" ? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2010): If you had written the question but said you were 28, I'd say you could consider an escort if that's what you want. But at 18, no, you shouldn't consider one.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2010): Honestly mate don't sweat it....I'm 18, a virgin and the best thing I'm doing is getting along with my life. Sex is important but not too important that it causes you extreme stress. if it happens, it happens. Enjoy life. don't take it too seriously. If you're concerned, i would recommend you just do it, just to understand the feeling and expectations. As for me...I'm waiting for marriage!!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 January 2010):
No, you're much better waiting for someone you can connect with, than a woman who is paid to effectively fake. You'll find a woman you connect with, and she'll be able to experiment with you and show you what she likes.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (12 January 2010):
NO! Okay, to be honest and in my opinion, the first time with a guy I never expect anything phenomenal. If it is anything good, then I'm surprised. I don't think any woman goes into having sex with a man for the first time thinking that it's going to be a mind blowing experience, probably just mediocre. When you find a girlfriend to have sex with, don't be afraid to let her know that you're a virgin and I'm sure she wouldn't mind showing you a thing or two if she's not a virgin. Either way, if you let a girl know that you want to know what feels good for her and for her to give a little guidance, don't be afraid to ask. It's really not a big deal, don't go so low as to get a prostitute to help you out.
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