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writes:It might be the same for a girl but I say this from a guys point of view. I always here that couples tease each other in a relationship, sexually. What does that imply? Reply to this Question
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reader, Miss_Oz +, writes (19 May 2007):
 Teasing in a sexual setting can imply a number of activities; basically, it is some form of sexual stimulation done in a manner as to bring your partner close to orgasm but not to let them follow through right away, to draw out their pleasure and often your own, or sometimes just to hold them off until you are ready to orgasm too; or as an anticipation build-up before intercourse. It's also good for those who enjoy a feeling of power or domination, knowing they are controlling how much pleasure (or how little) their partner is getting. For an example, a man teasing a woman during oral sex might lick her only very slowly even if she wants him to do it faster and any time she comes close to her orgasm, stopping and blowing cool air on her genitals, or stopping stimulation of her clitoris and simply licking along her thighs for a while instead; or a woman teasing a man during intercourse might repeatedly pull herself back until he is only inside her vagina about an inch and refuse to thrust again if he doesn't beg for it. Someone could tease their partner by caressing themselves intimately while their partner watches but telling them they can't caress themselves and that they can't join in the show, even though they will want to. You can use props; blindfolding someone and drizzling body paint/honey/cream on them and slowly licking it off is a popular tease, as it is exciting not to know where the next lick will be. Making your partner desperate and begging for what they want is a good sign that your teasing is effective. Teasing is not something you have to prepare for either; it can be purely spontaneous, or if you're just in the mood to be a tad naughty; or as 'punishment' for your lover if they've been 'bad', if those kind of games are part of your repetoir. Teasing for too long can become frustrating though, so you should learn to read when your partner has reached their limit; most men and women enjoy if from time to time if not often, so have fun and remember, if you're not comfortable with something, don't do it.
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