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*ohnathe
writes:I'm 17. I met this girl 2 years ago, who I've liked for a very long time. We've maintained a pretty close friendship since. We talk to each other almost everyday! When we hang out we talk about personal things. We're relatively shy and we only maintain eye contact when talk. We have "innocent glances" all time. I can't ask her out on a date because we already hang out sometimes. I don't know what to do! She has recently started talking to me way more. She texts me all the time, and shes also been calling me on her way home from whatever she was doing. We also wake each other for school.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): Seeing as you are really good friends already (or perhaps more!!) you could ask her out and see how it goes from there. Or perhaps you could sit her down and tell her how you feel about her. She does seem quite keen for this, but it is harder to tell when someone is shy!!!
Even if you are shy I think you should go for it.
Follow your heart. x x x
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reader, bqagirl2692 +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Seems to me that there can be more to this relationship than just being friends. Ask her out on a date and see if this can go any further. f the date goes pretty well and she is enjoying herself, ask her out on another date. This is a progress that can take a little time. IT shouldnt take long because it seems to me that there are already feelings going on there. Make the first move, and im not talking about kissing or to that extent. Talk to her and share how youo both may feel. Good luck!
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reader, leanne.od  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 there is no harm in asking her out on a proper date. tell her you would like to take her out and see if things can progress more than friends. let her know you like her and that you want to date her, to see how it goes. if she enjoys your company and talks to you alot, that is strong foundations to start a relationship on so it can't be too bad!
bets of luck.
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