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We have an open relationship. How can I become number one with him?

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Question - (27 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

there's this guy i met and sparks flew instantly we went out two times as friends and delayed our third ( and romantic ) date due to both of us being usually busy the thing is between that time he returned with his ex girlfriend ( open relationship) but i like him so much i decided to go ahead anyway and he even met my mom and one of my best guy friends and he seems to be very into me as i had several proofs of it and while i think i spend more time with him as his girlfriend the other girl actually holds the title ( he is also sleeping with two girls but nothing romantic) what can i do to make him realize i am the only one he needs?

He is a freshmen in college and i am a senior in high school by they way and i am 17 and he is 18.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (29 March 2011):

CindyCares agony aunt Saying you want to do something and actually doing it are often very different things. Make sure he gets rid of all his harem before assuming your relationship will go anywhere.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

thank for your kind awnsers but last night he asked told me he wants to make it serious

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (27 March 2011):

CindyCares agony auntYou may be the one he needs, but he is surely NOT the one you need . An official gf, plus two FWBS, ..a really overcrowded situation , that says a lot about his attitude towards relationships and women. What's so attractive in a guy that can spread around his feelings - and his semen- so casually ?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011):

I agree, it won't happen. Stop trying to get what you can't have.

Be honest with yourself. The fact that so many other girls want him is probably helping make you want him more. Would he even seem worth this much if other girls didn't compete with you for him?

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