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reader, babewithbrains  +, writes (26 August 2008):
 Wait a minute, Sonny.Having a baby is no laughing matter. I strongly, STRONGLY advise abortion. You are not ready yet. You aren't maried.You are still at shcool...Hmmmm... great life aheasd of you. Why not wait until you have a stable income and a nice house? It's not like it's your last chance!!!!You could (Though it would probbably break her heart) go through with an adoption, loads of loving families would take care of your childand love him/her.JellyxxxPlease pm me.
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reader, Chestnut  +, writes (24 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlright thanks guys! I really appreciate it!
But..she doesn't want to take the pill so just..were just gonna have the baby. Cause I mean, I know she's the one for me, and I promised her when were finished with school wed get married(cause I really love her) and yeah
But thanks to everyone who helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): You can get the pill in a pharmacy i believe. Have you ever heard of Planned Parenthood? Theres planned parenthood clinics here and they provide you with free contraception and the morning after pill (its not free i believe its around at least 75 dollars. ). Look it up online to find the nearest one near you.
Good Luck!! :)
Jennilynn
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reader, pursuit of happiness +, writes (23 August 2008):
If either or both of you are not ready for the lifelong commitment of a baby you need to go and get the morning after pill ASAP, you only have a matter of hours to do so. Good Luck!
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (23 August 2008):
 levonorgestrel apparently its called in the States.
C xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): go to your nearest clinic, ask them for the morin after pill & its usually free for under 18s :D good luckk x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Normally you can get the morning after pill from a doctor; a pharmacy or a family planning clinic; not sure about your country, but call your emergency health service, they might be able to tell you wher you can obtain the pills.
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): I am merely confirming what you have already been told.
1. The morning after pill a.s.a.p
2. Birthcontroll pill and the use of condomes
untill you are ready to face the responsibility of parenthood.
Best wishes and lots of SMILES
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reader, babewithbrains +, writes (23 August 2008):
She could quite easily get pregnant. If you don't want a baby then you can use the morning after pill, though that shouldn't be used as regular contraception.Jellyxxx
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reader, MidtownToDowntown  +, writes (23 August 2008):
If you want to wait until you're 18 to have a baby you should really start being safe about sex. Condoms are faaaar cheaper than a kid but talk to your girlfriend about going on the pill as it can be more convenient.
If you don't want to be a parent now then get her the morning after pill pronto
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reader, Country Woman +, writes (23 August 2008):
 hlskitten has given you sound advice as I was only going to suggest the same thing, the morning after pill.
If you don't want a child till your 18 make sure you start using condoms they are so much cheaper than a child believe me. Maybe talk to your gf about going on the pill as well.
Don't be teenage parents unnecessarily, you knew that by having unprotected sex what the possibilities could be and some places will even give out free advice on all forms of contraception, not sure about places in the US though so get looking on the net and see what you can do for the future.
All is not lost just yet but act as quickly as possible OK.
Wish you luck.
Country Woman
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (23 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOhhhYou know where I can get it?Or..Like you said, since I live in the U.S would you know a type of pill or something that works the same?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (23 August 2008):
Stops the egg and sperm fertilising in the first place as far as i know.
C xxxxxx
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reader, Chestnut +, writes (23 August 2008):
Chestnut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol Yeah I knowThanksBut what does this pill do?
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (23 August 2008):
No one will be able to tell you that! Not even you yet. Get the morning after pill. Levonel. Available free at gp's or 25/30 quid in chemist. Job done. Can be used up to 3 days after. No side effects these days, 1 pill. The quicker its taken, the more affective. If you really dont want a child, act now and swallow your pride! Its a lifetime of responsibility otherwise ey.
And you know the rest, you dont need us to tell you!
Good luck
C xxxxx
Argg just noticed your in the States. Not sure where you get the pill from there.
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