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I'm not sure if its the right time to ask her out yet

Q.   So, I've recently been talking to this girl and I'm really attracted to her but she just got her heart broken and its been about a week but I'm not sure now is the right time to ask her out because I want to give her time to get back on her feet and ...

A.   15 July 2009: Well, I think they were together for about a year and some months. Yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and give it some time before I fully ask her out :] And Samii, That's true. :] Thanks guys!... (read in full...)

How can I answer them when they say horrible comments about my girlfriend?

Q.   Hey all! Me again, so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. Everything's been going great and whatnot but I recently started high school, the thing is, people.... are just....assholes. Since the first time I've gotten with my ...

A.   21 November 2008: Yeah I know guys. I don't let it get me down or anything just..I'm worried about how she'd feel. I tell her often and she says she doesn't care and stuff but I know deep down she does and I hate that! Yeah she's great! Gosh I love her! She makes me ... (read in full...)

We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?

Q.   So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...

A.   24 August 2008: Alright thanks guys! I really appreciate it! But..she doesn't want to take the pill so just..were just gonna have the baby. Cause I mean, I know she's the one for me, and I promised her when were finished with school wed get married(cause I real... (read in full...)

We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?

Q.   So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...

A.   23 August 2008: Ohhh You know where I can get it? Or..Like you said, since I live in the U.S would you know a type of pill or something that works the same?... (read in full...)

We had unprotected sex today, what to do now?

Q.   So..me and My Girlfriend Had Sex Today..It was good and all..Problem is..we did it Six Times...Nother Problem..they were all unprotected..and I know there's a possibility that she might be pregnant..I'm not scared or anything just worried..cuz my ...

A.   23 August 2008: Lol Yeah I know Thanks But what does this pill do?... (read in full...)

I get pre-ejaculation when we are just hanging out or talking - can I control this?

Q.   Hey Guys! Uhm I have a question.. Well I had my other one answered but its not solved.. So me and my girlfriend had sex and its great and all but like I said, what I hate is that sometimes when were just talking or just hanging out doing nothing ...

A.   8 August 2008: Haha that's funny :p Yeeaah I'm thinking of that. But first I need to go and see if the doc says if nothings up Ill see what's up with the "Funny Business" before going over to her place haha Thanks Again to everyone who helped!... (read in full...)

I get pre-ejaculation when we are just hanging out or talking - can I control this?

Q.   Hey Guys! Uhm I have a question.. Well I had my other one answered but its not solved.. So me and my girlfriend had sex and its great and all but like I said, what I hate is that sometimes when were just talking or just hanging out doing nothing ...

A.   8 August 2008: Lol yeah I know. I haven't thought of that..I haven't ever talked to my dad about it but I probably will idk. Well that's some great tips thanks. But like..I don't feel when I'm going to ejaculate unless I'm having intercourse. Like..when w... (read in full...)

"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?

Q.   Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. ...

A.   8 August 2008: Yeah I know but..I wanna be around her with out ejaculating lol which happens..basically all the time and I hate it!... (read in full...)

I get pre-ejaculation when we are just hanging out or talking - can I control this?

Q.   Hey Guys! Uhm I have a question.. Well I had my other one answered but its not solved.. So me and my girlfriend had sex and its great and all but like I said, what I hate is that sometimes when were just talking or just hanging out doing nothing ...

A.   8 August 2008: Mmm that's my guess too. Yeah ill try that out and see what happens. Thanks Dude.... (read in full...)

"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?

Q.   Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. ...

A.   7 August 2008: Is there anyway(s) to stop this? Cause I visited her just last week and..it happened again. We were just outside talking ,while our parents were talking inside, and she didn't turn me on or anything(not that she doesn't :p) but like it just..ha... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

Q.   This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...

A.   4 August 2008: Yup! Lol... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

Q.   This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...

A.   4 August 2008: Well guys.... She's not Pregnant! So yeah. Well thanks for everyones help I really appreciate it :]... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

Q.   This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...

A.   3 August 2008: Yeah I know dude. Jst..I wanna "smash his face in" so badly..it does eat me aswell but were doing good. And yeah I told her from now on if we have sex that it'd only be if SHE wants to because I don't want her thinkin tht I just want her for that ... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

Q.   This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...

A.   3 August 2008: Yeah I know thanks. I'm going to talk to her about going to the police. But I think she'd say no cuz shed be afraid if her parents found out but I'm telling her she should just tell them... (read in full...)

My ex girlfriend got raped by her current boyfriend. She maybe pregnant. WHat can I do to help her?

Q.   This is basically an update from my previous questions but I just need help. So my ex and I broke up and were going through a very rough time and during that time..she was....uhm...kinda weird to say..but yeah she was raped..by her current boyfrien...

A.   3 August 2008: Yeah I know I should but...I just..I don't know part of me just wants to beat him but then I don't. And she's just with him because the guy thinks she might be pregnant and idk lol but yeah like I said, I'm trying to do everything I can for her. And ... (read in full...)

I'm ready for sex but no girl want to go out with me!

Q.   I am a 14 year old boy, and im ready to have sex. I know all about it but i dont know how to get a girl, because no girl want to go out with me. Can you help me? ...

A.   3 August 2008: Yeah dude! Cmon.. You can't just go..and meet a girl and all of a sudden your gunna have sex! That's not how girls role, playa! Lol just...hang out with girls and just be your self but just if you do get a girlfriend, wait a while and make sure SHE ... (read in full...)

I want her back but she has a boyfriend, although it may not be serious.

Q.   Hey all! Well me and my girlfriend were together for two years but things started falling apart and we ended it. But now I REALLY want her back, and I'm pretty sure that she does too but she has another bf at the moment and I just don't know what to ...

A.   1 August 2008: Yeah dude..your right. I'm just going to wait it out and see what happens. I really don't want her breaking up with him cause your right, it Can happen to me. But we broke up cause she just moved to another city(kinda far) not cuz we fell out of ... (read in full...)

Could your hymen break from being fingered? Does precum represent a risk?

Q.   I have two questions. One is my bf and I were fooling around and I was stroking him and he fingerd me. Could your hymen break from being fingered cause after I had a little blood when I went to the bathroom and wiped myself. Second question is: when...

A.   27 July 2008: Yeah..I agree you use a condom everytime. I don't know how but Me and My Gf did it without protection about two times and somehow..she hasn't gotten pregnant. But just keep in mind to ALWAYS wear protection even if you or your friend wouldn't want... (read in full...)

"Fluids" come out even when we're not doing anything sexual... Help?

Q.   Well me and My girlfriend have been going out for 2 and a half years now and we started having sex. Its great and all but what I kinda hate is that, after we began having sex I noticed when were alone and not doing anything..I "cum" for no reason. ...

A.   23 July 2008: Hahaha "Pull out" hahaha what's that?... (read in full...)

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