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We had sex, with a condom and he didn't orgasm. Could I still be pregnant?

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Question - (6 May 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2007)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

HEY ALL!

I'm almost 16 and I am just a little bit worried about something... i need advice and information please.

here's the story...

Over a month ago I was worried that I was pregnant from just rubbing against my boyfriend. I read somewhere that there is a slight chance u can get pregnant if the cum goes a little bit inside me. Although the chances are very slight.. I was still a little worried. But I got my period and was relieved. I only got my period once since then and I am expecting it any day now but its already a week late.

Yesterday I actually lost my virginity to him. We used a condom and he said he is 100% sure he didn’t cum. Obviously I still worry. Is it possible that he didn’t feel if he came? We used protection and made sure that it didn’t enter me even if he did cum. He was only inside me a for a few seconds anyway.

The weird thing is that straight after we did it, I started to bleed. I know that a girl usually bleeds the first time she has sex. But the blood came out while he was fingering me because it was on his fingers. I am thinking that maybe that blood was menstrual blood because I am expecting it anyway. But now I am not bleeding anymore which is weird., What was that blood then that only lasted a few hours?

Although I highly highly doubt I am pregnant.. is there still a chance I am even though I bled afterwards?

When is a girl the most likely to become pregnant? If I’m not mistaken it’s the safest 3 weeks before your next period.. but I am very irregular so I cant really say.

Please could someone tell me what they think about all this. I’m sorry about it being so long!! But pls don’t ignore it for that reason.. I really need some advice. What is going on with my body?

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A female reader, love-him United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2007):

love-him agony auntyou wont be pregnant if the condom, didnt split. the blood would be your hyen rippin, and you will have a period soon. the fact that you arnt havin regular periods tells me that its not that bad you dont have one. hope i helped x x x

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (7 May 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou're most likely not pregnant but since you worry about getting pregnant why don't you get on the pill so you know that you are safe? Also the home pregnancy tests are cheap and accurate so I'd keep a few on hand. Keep using the condoms to protect against STD's though. It's really a shame that young girls start having sex before they understand all the aspects of human reproduction.

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