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writes:I am a male of 25 years.I had sex only 4 times. But i usaully masturbate. My exp of sex with women is very bad.In 2 out of 4 times i suffered premature ejaculation because i was anxious and worried.In these 2 times, my dick was not strong and when i inserted, the wetness of the pussy made me cum very early. Other two times my performance was better, with perfect strength of my dick and i had orgams after 2,3 minutes.When i used to masturbate 3,4 years back,i orgamsed after a long time.Now after i had sex, i do masturbate to check my self while watching porn to stop and start method but after few minutes i lose my interest and i cum. After that i feel more worried about this. I love my girl friend. And i want to do sex with her with high performance. But i am worried with my past experiences. Please help
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reader, steven 25206542  +, writes (10 May 2007):
 well masterbation makes you cum but if u keep doing it it will speed up the proses and make u cum quicker just cut down on the masterbation only do it like 1-2 hourse befor sex trust me on this also if u do masterbat do it with a really tight grip as this WILL make the penis less sesitive as for squizing the head off your penis this is called the squize method our the start and stop method this can take a lot off practise befor uve masterd this teqneqe
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reader, Rikki +, writes (6 May 2007):
Hey Steven, why you think that stopping masturbation will help him???
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2007): Thanks , but steven..I heard that stopping masturbaton leads to more problems...??? About pennis, normally i have a strong erection when i do masturbate and other two times of sex, i had strong erection....
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reader, plumzie +, writes (6 May 2007):
 Just relax....
one...talk to your girlfriend and explain the situation,..am sure if she is with mature attitude she will understand.
tell her to press the pressure point just under the head at the back of the penis hard...this will stop ejeculation.
and when you feel you are about to cum...distract your mind and think of the most boring and mundane things you can to stop yourself from feeling the high of orgasm.
as they say...practice makes perfect...the more you practice these techniques the better you become...
best of luck.
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reader, aphrodites_pendant +, writes (6 May 2007):
 The first thing you have to understand is that what has happened with previous sexual partners has no relation to what will happen with your current girlfriend. Every sexual partner you have is completely different and everytime you have sex with someone new it is an exploration of each other. No one expects you to be perfect first time! The fact that you have been anxious may have something to do with premature ejaculation so RELAX. The fact that she is your girlfriend means that she loves you just the way you are so take a deep breath and enjoy it. If after you have sex with her for the first time you have encountered the same problem then talk to her. You may feel embarassed about it now but chances are she'll have some little trick to calm you right down.
Good luck!
Aphrodites Pendant x
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reader, steven 25206542 +, writes (6 May 2007):
well stop the masterbathion your body gets used to ejeculating early so cut down on it and when u do masterbat with a tight grip this will make your nob less sensitve also try to calm your self down and try to make sure shes came before u even think about having penitrathion eg oral sex our even fingering her an keep doing it untill uve calmed down then go for the full on stuff as for a soft cock try doing fittnes that will get the blood pumping u could also go on websites iv heard good thing about cock rings which keeps the penis erect
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