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writes:me and my friend here still dont know.so yesterday i really started talking to this guy.i talked to him from 11am, to 10pm.and he obviously enjoys making me laugh.he trys really hard to.(btw, i've never met him. he's got mutual friends with me though. and he lives in a city im in alot.)i suggested meeting up with him, and hanging out,he said he wants to but is afaid ill think he's a loser buecase he claims to be a little chubby.pft. i dont care! :)and before he signed off msn last night, he said,"aww, i've gotta go. :( but ill talk to you later? 33"i know usually after all that, you'd say he's crushin'.BUT, his relationship status on facebook is 'it's complicated.'and he's kind of seeing somone...so what do you think?PS: dont worry, i'de be safe meeting him.i'de bring a few friends.PLUS, we have mutual friends.so its cool.PSS: im crushing on him pretty bad...
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2008): complicated usually means hes a liar and a cheat
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reader, Ann1056263 +, writes (31 January 2008):
It's crazy, I've been in the exact same situation. And to let you know off the bat, I've been in a relationship with him for about a year and change. You definitely should meet him with friends first, in a public place of course. You may like each other online, but you never know if the chemistry online will transfer over well in person. If things don't pan out well, be very clear that you want be friends. If you guys get along extremely well, let him know how you feel, ask him if he feels the same, and find out exactly what he plans to do about the person he's seeing now.
You definitely don't want to get caught up in whatever they have going on. You deserve to be with someone who wants you and only you.
Sorry if that sounded cliched! Good luck with everything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2008): Yeah why not meet up with him?
You don't have to dive into a relationship with him so you could just meet up as friends - with your other mutual friends. You'll at least get to know him better then.
Just arrange to meet up with him and see where it goes from there. Good luck!! x x x
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