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We fooled around and now I need advice before I can get a pregnancy test

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Question - (6 July 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 6 July 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok so here it goes. On june 19 me and my boyfriend were fooling around at his place, clothes on. Lol. And well he went to the restroom to "relieve" himself by masterbating. Well after he was done, he wiped his hands off quickly of his hmm how can I put this without sounding ugly "spunk", with a rag. He then came back and we went back to what we were doing..things got heavy and after like 2-4 minutes he inserted one of his fingers into me and then remembered earlier and freaked out and pulled out. Now my last period was may 31. Since june 27 I have been feeling as if I was about to throw up, and thrown up (usually these feelings are at night), I haven't gotten my period yet,been getting cramps in my stomach since around the same time, boobs are really sore, have to pee a lot, random mood swings, hardening of my lower stomach. Im hoping that these are just signs of period coming..but you can never be too sure. Can't get pregnancy test yet because im back at home and have been with my mother all this time and I don't want to dissapoint her if there isn't anything to worry about. I know that once I have the test I will know for sure. But I have at least some knowledge beforehand.

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A female reader, KEY2URHEART32 United States +, writes (6 July 2008):

Sweety you have nothing to worry about...it is highly unlikely that you are pregnant. Chances are that your period is delayed due to you stressing over the fact that your man insertd his finger in you after masturbating. Semen does not survive very long outside of the body that means that the sperm is dead...no sperm...no baby. Relax and be careful to avoid any unwanted pregnancy's.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008):

Semen dries out very quickly when it's outside the body; once it's dried; the sperm almost die at once;

On a human hand; the drying/survival time would be very short; I really doubt that you could get pregnant in the way you've described.

I've never heard of anybody who got pregnant like this;

So please don't worry.

Best wishes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008):

I wouldn't worry about it. Sperm doesn't survive outside the body for long so it's highly unlikely your pregnant. Also by worrying about it you're stressing yourself out which could be why your period stopped. Or if you have changed your diet slightly your body might be running on low which could also be the reason for your feeling sick.

I really don't think you should be at all worried about it, they are signs your period is coming, and if it doesn't it's probably just that you're stressing yourself about it. However, if you still fell unsure about it i would buy a pregnancy test, to put your mind at ease.

Don't worry about a thing... :D

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008):

i think you are so stressed out about it thats why you havnt gotten your period yet. and sometimes women can get symptoms of pregnancy just by thinking that they are pregnant. the chances of you being pregnant from that are extremely unlikely. also. your period coming on can cause the same symptoms as pregnancy so i would relax a little bit.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2008):

You can stop your period by being stressed, if youre worrying about it, then that could easily stop it.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2008):

It could easily be bad PMT, or stress because you are so worried about being pregnant.

You don't need your mum to know you are getting a pregnancy test. You can buy one in a chemist and do the test in a public loo. Or go to a family planning clinic.

Do that as soon as possible, and then you will know for sure.

The chances of you actually being pregnant are tiny, but get the test anyway. And in future if this happens again get the morning after pill.

Good Luck!! xx

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