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writes: My boyfriend of two years broke it off with me a couple of weeks ago. At first i was relieved because we had been arguing so much and he was extremely jealous and wouldn't allow me to do things i wanted to. However, now i'm having regrets. He text me after we split saying he wanted to try again but i was angry and said it was over. Now i want to try again but he refuses and i've heard that he's already seeing someone else from work! I'm devastated. I can't understand how he could fall out of love with me so quickly and move on. I've tried to forget about him but i keep dreaming that we're back together and it rips my heart out when i wake up and find it isn't true. How do i get him back or get on with life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): Well, talk him one last time. If it works out, great;otherwise, move on. At the moment you feel he'sirreplaceable, but with time you might just findsomeone even better. Believe it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2006): Ummmm hello...??!! I disagree what these other two have said on here as you said he was extremley jealous and wouldn't allow you to do anything you wanted...what kind of relationship is that? Are you that insecure as a person that you would like to be with someone like that? Hold your head high and walk away from him ...quicky, he obviously is over you, get over him.
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reader, Nish +, writes (9 August 2006):
I've had this problem before. I moved on because he didn't want to be with me. But what I think you should do is write him a letter stating that you're sorry. Explain to him how much you really care about him. Let him know that you were upset when he asked you the first time and you would really love to try and work it out. Tell him about the dreams you keep having. Add some extra things in there about the good times you use to spend with him. Tell him that you want to go back to the good times. Let him know that you're going crazy without him, even if you're not, he'll still like to hear it. Do all the things that attracted him to you the first time you met. Maybe then he'll understand that you truely and honestly miss him and want to work things out. Try it and see what will happen!
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reader, badbrit  +, writes (9 August 2006):
Well you hit nail on the head with the final sentence. Ring him, and ay you want to talk with him, just talk. See if he will meet you so you can discuss things sensibly and honestly and see what comes from that. If it ends with him till saying no, or if he wont agree to meet, then you will have to just move on. Harder than it sounds in some ways, easier in others. Start to go out more, see friends, get some hobbies, make yourself busy and the ache will soon start to fade, even if not disappear
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