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writes:Hi,I'm just confused about a guy I met the other night, if he's interested or notI was out drinking and we met at the bar, talked for a bit but I felt like I was being awkward which is common for me, then at the end of the night we hugged goodbye and his friend chimed in that he had to get my number and I told him he didn't have to unless he wanted to and he said he was "indifferent" which of course is a bad sign but then he asked me if I wanted to give it to him and I said I did so I gave it to him and was definitely not expecting to hear from him, considering he didn't really ask for my number in the first place so I figured he wasn't interested. Surprisingly he texted me the same night and said it was nice meeting me and it sucked that I had to leave so early. Was he just being polite or is he interested?
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reader, llifton +, writes (22 July 2014):
 He's obviously interested, and clearly has no game whatsoever lol. He's "indifferent?" Not charming.
But no guy who wasn't interested would actually text you, let alone that very same night. You would have just never heard from him if he wasn't feeling it. I think he is clearly really shy or socially awkward. Which is probably why his friend did the asking for him for your number.
In say he likes you. But from the sounds of it, things may progress pretty slowly, as he seems incredibly timid.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 July 2014):
 I agree with Janniepeg.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (20 July 2014):
 He knows little about you and wouldn't want his friends to interfere. He can be polite but you can still get him interested. If you like him ask him on a date (just a coffee or lunch) and see how he replies. Then you will know if he's just being polite. It's okay to go from not expecting anything to getting to know each other. It's totally normal to feel awkward and clueless.
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