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writes:Ok this is weird. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. The other day we went to the water park with her younger sister. While there at one point the litter sister, who is 18 and I'm 20, started to tickle me underwater and started touching me too many times to be accidental. They were minor yes but it gets weird. So I told her to see a funny video just because, but she asked me if I was busy. my girlfriend was out working and would be back until the next day. well the sister asked me if I wanted to hang out...I was confused and asked and do what. She called my cell and asked if I wanted to go see her movie because she was bored. I told her to go with her b.f but he was working. I didn't respond and she asked if I could set up her cpu and her dad insisted since they couldnt. So I got there set up her cpu and she wanted to watch NETFLIX with me. I didn't want to but because I thought I was over thinking things I decided to do so. Some time passed and popcorn was made and she would drink from my coke...now she seemed pretty bummed when I had to leave.i left fast. Sooooooo I'm confused. I've known her since she was in middle school. Could it be that I'm over reacting and she's seeing me as an older brother or something else? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mistresskiki  +, writes (21 July 2014):
She has a MAHOOOSIVE crush on you. Absolutely enormous. I would suggest you don't get yourself into a situation where there is the opportunity for 'harmless' play (it isn't - and you know that, otherwise you wouldn't be asking these questions). I would also suggest you let your gf know what has been happening because if she finds out and misinterprets you could be in serious trouble.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2014): Due to her age being so close to yours, you should keep a healthy distance from her, to make sure there are no misunderstandings....by anyone! including your gf and her parents. You should not say anything to anyone, as it could be embarrassing for the little sister, and may cause awkwardness in years to come. I suggest, you just be very careful, always too busy to 'hangout' with her, and don't spend any time alone with her. Don't do anything that might cause her to get the wrong ideas from you. Hopefully the crush (if it is one) will pass.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (20 July 2014):
 Could be the little sister is crushing on you, I'd honestly NOT spend time one-on-one with her.
Sounds a LOt more like a crush then wanting to hang with her "brother-in-law".
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2014): Come straight out and say it to your gf, tell her that her little sis seems to be acting like she's got a crush on you and it's completely freaking you out. It's better that she is aware too, because she'll know her sis the best and will be able to spot any signs and probably give her some kind advice - or she could in a sisterly way take the piss a bit and joke that she's acting like she's crushing on you - a little bit of embarrassment about it and the fact that she's been so obvious might just make pay more attention to her own bf!
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