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Turns out I'm not the submissive sex bitch he thought I was. Now he wants to end things?

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Question - (16 October 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 October 2009)
A female Australia age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy over the internet since January of this year. We have been sharing pics etc and msn. The last month he suggested that we go on Skype. We have exposed ourselves over Skype as he has a major interest in me showing him anal sex with myself. As of late I have not wanted to do it anymore as I am aware that Skype can be recorded. This guy is well aware that I want to meet him face to face and planned to at the end of November. I told him that I didn't want to do Skype anymore as I wanted to meet him face to face. Since I haven't wanted to demonstrate myself having anal sex with myself on Skype he has told me to not bother coming over and that I am not being the submissive sex bitch that he thought I was. I don't mind if he calls me a Sex Bitch that's cool but I do feel hurt that he has been putting pressure on me for the last week up to 15 texts per day to get on Skype or he's going to pull the pin. How could a guy want to pull the pin just because I won't go on Skype and rather leave things than to meet me in real flesh. I feel very hurt and confused.

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A female reader, cc62955p United States +, writes (17 October 2009):

dont be hurt over this pig of a man...tell him YOU are done with him and then say you rather find a man who wants to meet you in person instead of fantasize about what he cant have on the internet. Girl you are so much better then this player...dont let him treat you like dirt. The only submissive sex bitch is HIM because he wants to sit back and watch instead of have the real deal or even a real relationship with a woman. avoid this piece of crap man like the plague....trust me, ive been hurt by creeps like him before theyre selfish and only care for THEMSELVES.

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A female reader, boo22 United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2009):

boo22 agony auntHe can do it cos he just thinks your a piece of meat. I cannot believe you would do this to yourself hun.

His only reason for having any kind of contact with you is the hope that you'll perform anal sex on the internet so him and his mates can watch it later.

He has no feeling for you of any kind and doesn't care in any way about your feelings.

Sorry to say but this is a lesson you should learn and quick.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (16 October 2009):

Because he might be married and is really not a great guy. To be honest, let him pull the pin and find a real man who won't pressurize you into anything you don't want to do. This guy is useless. All the best.

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